1 Corinthians 4:21
New International Version
What do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod of discipline, or shall I come in love and with a gentle spirit?

New Living Translation
Which do you choose? Should I come with a rod to punish you, or should I come with love and a gentle spirit?

English Standard Version
What do you wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love in a spirit of gentleness?

Berean Standard Bible
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?

Berean Literal Bible
What do you desire? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

King James Bible
What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

New King James Version
What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

New American Standard Bible
What do you desire? That I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

NASB 1995
What do you desire? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

NASB 1977
What do you desire? Shall I come to you with a rod or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

Legacy Standard Bible
What do you desire? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

Amplified Bible
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod [of discipline and correction], or with love and a gentle spirit?

Christian Standard Bible
What do you want? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

Holman Christian Standard Bible
What do you want? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

American Standard Version
What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

Contemporary English Version
What do you want me to do when I arrive? Do you want me to be hard on you or to be kind and gentle?

English Revised Version
What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of meekness?

GOD'S WORD® Translation
When I come to visit you, would you prefer that I punish you or show you love and a gentle spirit?

Good News Translation
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a whip, or in a spirit of love and gentleness?

International Standard Version
Which do you prefer? Should I come to you with a stick, or with love and a gentle spirit?

Majority Standard Bible
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?

NET Bible
What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod of discipline or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

New Heart English Bible
What do you want? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

Webster's Bible Translation
What will ye? shall I come to you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

Weymouth New Testament
Which shall it be? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in a loving and tender spirit?

World English Bible
What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
What do you wish? Will I come to you with a rod, or in love, also with a spirit of meekness?

Berean Literal Bible
What do you desire? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

Young's Literal Translation
what do ye wish? with a rod shall I come unto you, or in love, with a spirit also of meekness?

Smith's Literal Translation
What will ye? should I come to you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
What will you ? shall I come to you with a rod; or in charity, and in the spirit of meekness ?

Catholic Public Domain Version
What would you prefer? Should I return to you with a rod, or with charity and a spirit of meekness?

New American Bible
Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and a gentle spirit?

New Revised Standard Version
What would you prefer? Am I to come to you with a stick, or with love in a spirit of gentleness?
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
Now what do you desire? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and in the spirit of meekness?

Aramaic Bible in Plain English
How do you want it? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in affection and in a spirit of meekness?
NT Translations
Anderson New Testament
What do you wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of gentleness?

Godbey New Testament
What do you wish? must I come unto you with the rod, or in divine love and the spirit of meekness?

Haweis New Testament
What is your wish? That I should come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

Mace New Testament
Which would you chuse, that I should come to you arm'd with resentment? or, in a mild and benevolent temper?

Weymouth New Testament
Which shall it be? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in a loving and tender spirit?

Worrell New Testament
What do ye wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

Worsley New Testament
What do ye chuse? that I should come to you with a rod? or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

Additional Translations ...
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Context
Paul Warns his Children
20For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. 21Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?

Cross References
2 Corinthians 10:1
Now by the mildness and gentleness of Christ, I appeal to you—I, Paul, who am humble when face to face with you, but bold when away.

2 Corinthians 13:10
This is why I write these things while absent, so that when I am present I will not need to be severe in my use of the authority that the Lord gave me for building you up, not for tearing you down.

Galatians 6:1
Brothers, if someone is caught in a trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him with a spirit of gentleness. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.

1 Thessalonians 2:7
On the contrary, we were gentle among you, like a nursing mother caring for her children.

2 Timothy 2:24-25
And a servant of the Lord must not be quarrelsome, but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, and forbearing. / He must gently reprove those who oppose him, in the hope that God may grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.

Titus 1:13
This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sternly, so that they will be sound in the faith

Titus 3:10
Reject a divisive man after a first and second admonition,

Matthew 11:29
Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

Matthew 21:5
“Say to the Daughter of Zion, ‘See, your King comes to you, gentle and riding on a donkey, on a colt, the foal of a donkey.’”

Luke 9:55-56
But Jesus turned and rebuked them. / And He and His disciples went on to another village.

Luke 22:42
“Father, if You are willing, take this cup from Me. Yet not My will, but Yours be done.”

John 2:15-17
So He made a whip out of cords and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle. He poured out the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. / To those selling doves He said, “Get these out of here! How dare you turn My Father’s house into a marketplace!” / His disciples remembered that it is written: “Zeal for Your house will consume Me.”

John 18:11
“Put your sword back in its sheath!” Jesus said to Peter. “Shall I not drink the cup the Father has given Me?”

Hebrews 12:6
For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastises every son He receives.”

James 3:17
But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, gentle, accommodating, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.


Treasury of Scripture

What will you? shall I come to you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

shall.

1 Corinthians 5:5
To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.

2 Corinthians 10:2,6,8
But I beseech you, that I may not be bold when I am present with that confidence, wherewith I think to be bold against some, which think of us as if we walked according to the flesh…

2 Corinthians 12:20,21
For I fear, lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I would, and that I shall be found unto you such as ye would not: lest there be debates, envyings, wraths, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, swellings, tumults: …

and.

2 Corinthians 10:1
Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who in presence am base among you, but being absent am bold toward you:

1 Thessalonians 2:7
But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:

James 3:17
But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.

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1 Corinthians 4
1. In what account the apostles ought to be regarded.
7. We have nothing which we have not received.
9. The apostles spectacles to the world, angels, and men;
13. the filth and offscouring of the world;
15. yet our fathers in Christ;
16. whom we ought to follow.














Which do you prefer?
This phrase invites the Corinthians to self-reflection and choice. The Greek word for "prefer" (βούλομαι, boulomai) implies a deliberate will or desire. Paul is not merely asking for their opinion but is prompting them to consider the consequences of their actions and the kind of relationship they wish to cultivate with their spiritual leader. Historically, this reflects the apostolic authority Paul held and his pastoral concern for the church's spiritual health.

Shall I come to you
Paul's use of "come" (ἔρχομαι, erchomai) indicates his intention to visit the Corinthian church. This is not just a physical journey but a spiritual visitation. In the early church, apostolic visits were significant events, often bringing correction, encouragement, and teaching. The historical context shows that Paul's visits were pivotal in shaping the early Christian communities.

with a rod
The "rod" (ῥάβδος, rhabdos) symbolizes discipline and correction. In ancient times, a rod was a tool for guiding and correcting, often used by shepherds. Scripturally, it represents authority and discipline (Proverbs 13:24). Paul is reminding the Corinthians of his authority to correct them if necessary, reflecting the biblical principle that discipline is an act of love intended to restore and guide.

or in love
The Greek word for "love" (ἀγάπη, agape) is the highest form of love, characterized by selflessness and sacrifice. Paul contrasts the rod with love, emphasizing his preference for a relationship built on mutual respect and care. This reflects the scriptural teaching that love is the greatest commandment (Matthew 22:37-39) and the foundation of Christian community.

and with a gentle spirit?
The phrase "gentle spirit" (πνεύματι πραΰτητος, pneumati prautetos) conveys a demeanor of meekness and humility. In the Greco-Roman world, gentleness was often seen as weakness, but in the Christian context, it is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23) and a mark of true strength. Paul is offering the Corinthians a choice between experiencing his authority through discipline or through the nurturing and transformative power of love and gentleness.

(21) What will ye?--I give you a choice. I am coming to you as a father in any case. But shall I come as a father comes with a rod (Isaiah 11:4), and going to inflict punishment with it (such is the force of the Greek, "in a rod"); or as a father would come when no faults on the child's part need interfere with the perfect and unrestricted outflowing of his gentleness and love. The pathos of these last few words sufficiently indicate what the Apostle would himself prefer. The choice, however, rested with them. His love would be no love, if without any change on their part, it led him to show no displeasure where correction was for their sake absolutely needed. This is a great and striking example of St. Paul having the "mind of God." He treats the Corinthians as God ever treats His children.

This verse at once concludes this first part of the Epistle, in which the party-spirit and the evils resulting from it in Corinth are treated of, and naturally introduces the second topic to be discussed, viz., the case of incest which had occurred, it being one of the things which would compel the Apostle to visit Corinth, not "in love and in the spirit of meekness," but "with a rod."

Verse 21. - What will ye? "The whole thing lies with you" (Chrysostom). With a rod; literally, in a rod a not uncommon Greek phrase. The meaning of this expression is best seen from 2 Corinthians 10:2; 2 Corinthians 13:10. In love. He would come to them "in love" in any case; but if they now rejected his appeals the love would be compelled to manifest itself in sharpness and stern deeds. In the spirit of meekness. Meyer here gives to the word "spirit" the sense of "the Holy Spirit," as in John 15:26; 2 Corinthians 4:13; but the simpler sense of the term is almost certainly the true one.



Parallel Commentaries ...


Greek
Which
τί (ti)
Interrogative / Indefinite Pronoun - Accusative Neuter Singular
Strong's 5101: Who, which, what, why. Probably emphatic of tis; an interrogative pronoun, who, which or what.

do you prefer?
θέλετε (thelete)
Verb - Present Indicative Active - 2nd Person Plural
Strong's 2309: To will, wish, desire, be willing, intend, design.

Shall I come
ἔλθω (elthō)
Verb - Aorist Subjunctive Active - 1st Person Singular
Strong's 2064: To come, go.

to
πρὸς (pros)
Preposition
Strong's 4314: To, towards, with. A strengthened form of pro; a preposition of direction; forward to, i.e. Toward.

you
ὑμᾶς (hymas)
Personal / Possessive Pronoun - Accusative 2nd Person Plural
Strong's 4771: You. The person pronoun of the second person singular; thou.

with
ἐν (en)
Preposition
Strong's 1722: In, on, among. A primary preposition denoting position, and instrumentality, i.e. A relation of rest; 'in, ' at, on, by, etc.

a rod,
ῥάβδῳ (rhabdō)
Noun - Dative Feminine Singular
Strong's 4464: A rod, staff, staff of authority, scepter. From the base of rhapizo; a stick or wand.

or
(ē)
Conjunction
Strong's 2228: Or, than. A primary particle of distinction between two connected terms; disjunctive, or; comparative, than.

in
ἐν (en)
Preposition
Strong's 1722: In, on, among. A primary preposition denoting position, and instrumentality, i.e. A relation of rest; 'in, ' at, on, by, etc.

love
ἀγάπῃ (agapē)
Noun - Dative Feminine Singular
Strong's 26: From agapao; love, i.e. Affection or benevolence; specially a love-feast.

and [with]
τε (te)
Conjunction
Strong's 5037: And, both. A primary particle of connection or addition; both or also.

a gentle
πραΰτητος (prautētos)
Noun - Genitive Feminine Singular
Strong's 4240: Mildness, gentleness. From praus; mildness, i.e. humility.

spirit?
πνεύματί (pneumati)
Noun - Dative Neuter Singular
Strong's 4151: Wind, breath, spirit.


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