If.

Luke 14:26, 27
"If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters--yes, even his own life--he cannot be My disciple. . . .

Matthew 10:38, 39
and anyone who does not take up his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me. . . .

Matthew 16:22-25
Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him. "Far be it from You, Lord!" he said. "This shall never happen to You!" . . .

Mark 8:34-38
Then Jesus called the crowd to Him along with His disciples, and He told them, "If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me. . . .

John 12:25, 26
Whoever loves his life will lose it, but whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. . . .

Romans 8:13
For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.

Colossians 3:5
Put to death, therefore, the components of your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires, and greed, which is idolatry.

2 Timothy 3:12
Indeed, all who desire to live godly lives in Christ Jesus will be persecuted,

deny.

Titus 2:12
It instructs us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live sensible, upright, and godly lives in the present age,

daily.

1 Corinthians 15:30, 31
And why do we endanger ourselves every hour? . . .