Women are Courteous to Strangers
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The Bible provides numerous examples of women who demonstrate courtesy and hospitality to strangers, reflecting virtues of kindness, generosity, and faith. These acts of courtesy are often seen as expressions of godly character and obedience to God's commandments.

Rebekah's Kindness to Abraham's Servant

One of the most notable examples is Rebekah, who showed exceptional hospitality to Abraham's servant. In Genesis 24, Abraham sends his servant to find a wife for his son Isaac. Upon arriving at a well, the servant prays for a sign, asking that the woman who offers him and his camels water be the one chosen by God for Isaac. Rebekah fulfills this request with grace and generosity. Genesis 24:18-20 states, "‘Drink, my lord,’ she replied, and she quickly lowered her jar to her hands and gave him a drink. After she had given him a drink, she said, ‘I will draw water for your camels as well, until they have had enough to drink.’ And she quickly emptied her jar into the trough and ran back to the well to draw more water, until she had drawn enough for all his camels." Rebekah's actions exemplify a spirit of service and kindness to a stranger, which ultimately leads to her becoming part of the lineage of Israel.

The Shunammite Woman's Hospitality

Another example is the Shunammite woman, who showed hospitality to the prophet Elisha. In 2 Kings 4:8-10, she perceives Elisha as a holy man of God and offers him a place to stay whenever he passes through her town. She even goes so far as to prepare a room for him, saying to her husband, "Please let us make a small room upstairs and put in it a bed, a table, a chair, and a lamp for him. Then whenever he comes to us, he can stay there." Her courtesy and generosity are rewarded by God, as Elisha later intercedes for her to have a son, fulfilling a deep desire of her heart.

Rahab's Protection of the Spies

Rahab, a woman of Jericho, also demonstrates courtesy and bravery by protecting the Israelite spies sent by Joshua. In Joshua 2, Rahab hides the spies from the king's men and helps them escape, acknowledging the power of the God of Israel. Her actions, though risky, show a profound respect and kindness to strangers, which leads to her and her family's salvation during the conquest of Jericho. Hebrews 11:31 commends her faith: "By faith the prostitute Rahab, because she welcomed the spies in peace, did not perish with those who were disobedient."

Abigail's Diplomacy with David

Abigail, the wife of Nabal, is another example of a woman who courteously intervenes to prevent bloodshed. In 1 Samuel 25, after her husband insults David, Abigail quickly acts to appease David's anger by bringing him gifts and speaking with wisdom and humility. Her actions not only prevent violence but also earn David's respect and gratitude. Abigail's courteous and wise approach is highlighted in 1 Samuel 25:32-33 , where David says, "Blessed be the LORD, the God of Israel, who sent you to meet me this day! Blessed is your discernment, and blessed are you for restraining me from shedding blood and avenging myself with my own hands."

These examples illustrate the biblical principle that women, through their courtesy and hospitality to strangers, play a significant role in God's redemptive history. Their actions often lead to blessings and fulfillments of God's promises, showcasing the importance of kindness and generosity in the life of faith.
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Genesis 24:17
And the servant ran to meet her, and said, Let me, I pray you, drink a little water of your pitcher.
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women, among us ... friends"and you especially who are strangers to this ...
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A Supplementary Chapter to the Bible in Spain
... The strangers, who had looked somewhat blank at the first ... let all share in their
easy, courteous society; let all admire their dark-eyed women, so frank ...
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The People among whom we Labour (Continued).
... and conversing with their women and children. ... and diplomacy if successful against
strangers." The lauded ... in ordinary circumstances, very courteous; they often ...
/.../life and work in benares and kumaon 1839-1877/chapter xxix the people among.htm

Third Sunday in Lent
... character as the fables or old women's tales mentioned ... should be a very firm, though
courteous, people. ... for they live like the heathen, being strangers to both ...
//christianbookshelf.org/luther/epistle sermons vol ii/third sunday in lent.htm

Funeral Oration on Meletius .
... On that occasion the tear of strangers was shed in common ... Where that courteous right
hand with fingers outstretched to ... Call for the mourning women [2090] ," as ...
/.../gregory/gregory of nyssa dogmatic treatises etc/funeral oration on meletius.htm

John Calvin. His Life and Character.
... the senate; entertaining and counselling strangers from all ... and Paul), of feeble
health, courteous, kind, grave ... advantage in his relations with men and women. ...
/.../creeds of christendom with a history and critical notes/ 56 john calvin his.htm

A Paradox
... their tempers amiable, their manners courteous, their spirit ... to be on good terms
with these interesting strangers. ... Pharaoh gave to him women- servants, and I ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 34 1888/a paradox.htm

A Case of Conscience Resolved
... And, courteous reader, since I have here presented thee with the ... a pattern, a rule,
a law to women in churches ... Christ; and how a company of strangers to gospel ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/a case of conscience resolved.htm

Treatise on the Priesthood. Book iii.
... to command yet sociable, impartial yet courteous, humble yet ... wasted, not only by
the women already mentioned ... Moreover, in the reception of strangers, and the ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/treatise on the priesthood book 3.htm

A Discourse Upon the Pharisee and the Publican
... Courteous Reader,. ... ignorant of, and that unto which our sense, feeling, reason, &c.,
are strangers. ... many times have I heard ancient men, and ancient women, at it ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/a discourse upon the pharisee.htm

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