Presents were Given in Token of Friendship
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In biblical times, the giving of presents was a common practice to express friendship, goodwill, and alliance. This tradition is deeply rooted in the cultural and social customs of the ancient Near East, where gifts served as tangible symbols of relationships and intentions. The Bible provides several instances where presents were exchanged as tokens of friendship, reflecting the values and norms of the time.

Genesis 32:13-21: One of the earliest examples of gift-giving as a gesture of reconciliation and friendship is found in the account of Jacob and Esau. After years of estrangement, Jacob sought to appease his brother Esau by sending him a series of gifts. Jacob's intention was to find favor in Esau's eyes, as he instructed his servants, "For he thought, 'I will pacify him with these gifts I am sending on ahead; later, when I see him, perhaps he will receive me.'" (Genesis 32:20). This act of sending gifts ahead of a personal meeting underscores the importance of presents in mending and strengthening relationships.

1 Samuel 18:4: The friendship between Jonathan and David is another poignant example. Jonathan, the son of King Saul, demonstrated his deep affection and loyalty to David by giving him his robe, tunic, sword, bow, and belt. "Then Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. Jonathan stripped off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, his sword, his bow, and his belt." (1 Samuel 18:3-4). This exchange of personal items was a powerful symbol of Jonathan's commitment and friendship towards David.

1 Kings 10:1-13: The visit of the Queen of Sheba to King Solomon illustrates the diplomatic use of gifts to establish and affirm alliances. The Queen of Sheba brought a lavish array of gifts to Solomon, including gold, spices, and precious stones, as a gesture of respect and to test Solomon's wisdom. "And she gave the king 120 talents of gold, a great quantity of spices, and precious stones. Never again did such an abundance of spices come to Israel as those the Queen of Sheba gave to King Solomon." (1 Kings 10:10). This exchange highlights the role of gifts in international relations and the recognition of Solomon's wisdom and wealth.

Proverbs 18:16: The wisdom literature of the Bible also acknowledges the strategic use of gifts. Proverbs 18:16 states, "A man’s gift opens doors for him, and it brings him before great men." . This proverb reflects the understanding that gifts can pave the way for opportunities and access to influential individuals, emphasizing the practical and relational benefits of gift-giving.

Esther 2:18: In the account of Esther, King Xerxes gave gifts as a sign of favor and celebration. After Esther was chosen as queen, the king held a great banquet and declared a holiday, distributing gifts with royal liberality. "Then the king gave a great banquet, Esther’s banquet, for all his officials and servants. He proclaimed a holiday in the provinces and distributed gifts with royal liberality." (Esther 2:18). This act of generosity was a public demonstration of the king's approval and joy.

Throughout the biblical narrative, the giving of presents as tokens of friendship is portrayed as a meaningful and strategic practice. Whether to mend relationships, express loyalty, establish alliances, or celebrate significant events, gifts served as important instruments in the social and political fabric of biblical times.
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1 Samuel 18:3,4
Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul.
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The End of Cambyses.
... except those whose early life has been given up to ... some presents to be sent as a
token of friendship ... The presents were, however, only a pretext, to enable the ...
//christianbookshelf.org/abbott/darius the great/chapter ii the end of.htm

How Herod Twice Sailed to Agrippa; and How Upon the Complaint in ...
... for them, though they had not been given us before ... have been informed by those Jews
that were there with ... and acceptedst of their own hospitable presents to thee ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 2 how herod twice.htm

Chapter xxxviii
... the traditional one for delinquents who were virtually betrothed. ... have befallen Tamar
had he given her to ... that claims: (the author) "presents Judah's behaviour ...
/.../leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxxviii.htm

The King after Man's Heart
... And they despised him, and brought him no presents. ... The retrospect here given points
the lesson of the sin ... to secure earthly stays, as if there were no past of ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/the king after mans heart.htm

Sargon of Assyria (722-705 BC )
... king had made good use of the respite given him during the ... Seven of their kings were
so far alarmed by the ... They therefore sent him presents, and, for the moment ...
/.../chapter iiisargon of assyria 722-705.htm

The King.
... narrative of these seven years presents the still ... people's unbounded confidence in
him, given incidentally when ... these vehement sons of Zeruiah were too strong ...
//christianbookshelf.org/maclaren/the life of david/ix the king.htm

Bossuet -- the Funeral Sermon on the Death of the Grande Conde
... object greater and worthier of this pulpit presents itself to ... the chief attraction
that should, as it were, be a ... the quality of kindness, is but given one that ...
/.../various/the worlds great sermons vol 2/bossuet the funeral sermon.htm

Chapter xxiv
... he seems to take and dangle these presents before Rebekah ... Their weight indicates
that they were gifts worthy of ... the b??qa' or "half shekel" is given Exodus 38 ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/leupold/exposition of genesis volume 1/chapter xxiv.htm

The Ascension
... that precede the account in the Gospel, yet presents them in ... And so He says, 'All
power is given unto Me ... the presence of that eternal Light if He were not there ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture e/the ascension.htm

Six Years in North Bengal --Missionary and Indigo Planter
... either be administered to sick poor, or given to any ... were not provided with English
cloth, etc., for presents. The time being come, we were waited on by the ...
/.../smith/the life of william carey/chapter iv six years in.htm

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Presents

Presents of Persons of Rank, of Great Value and Variety

Presents were Given by Kings to Each Other in Token of Inferiority

Presents were Given in Token of Friendship

Presents were Given: As Tribute

Presents were Given: At Marriages

Presents were Given: On all Occasions of Public Rejoicing

Presents were Given: On Occasions of Visits

Presents were Given: On Recovering from Sickness

Presents were Given: On Restoration to Prosperity

Presents were Given: On Sending Away Friends

Presents were Given: To Appease the Angry Feelings of Others

Presents were Given: To Confirm Covenants

Presents were Given: To Judges to Secure a Favourable Hearing

Presents were Given: To Kings to Engage Their Aid

Presents were Given: To Reward Service

Presents were Given: To Show Respect

Presents: Antiquity of

Presents: Considered Essential on all Visits of Business

Presents: Generally Presented in Person

Presents: Generally Procured a Favourable Reception

Presents: Laid out and Presented With Great Ceremony

Presents: Not Bringing, Considered a Mark of Disrespect

Presents: Often Borne by Servants

Presents: Often Conveyed on Camels

Presents: Receiving of, a Token of Good Will

Presents: Sometimes Sent Before the Giver

Presents: Things Given as Cattle

Presents: Things Given as Food

Presents: Things Given as Garments

Presents: Things Given as Gold and Silver Vessels

Presents: Things Given as Horses and Mules

Presents: Things Given as Money

Presents: Things Given as Ornaments

Presents: Things Given as Precious Stones

Presents: Things Given as Servants

Presents: Things Given as Weapons of War

Presents: when Small or Defective, Refused

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Presents were Given by Kings to Each Other in Token of Inferiority
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