Presents were Given: On Sending Away Friends
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In biblical times, the act of giving presents when sending away friends was a gesture of goodwill, hospitality, and blessing. This practice is rooted in the cultural and religious traditions of the ancient Near East, where gifts were often exchanged to honor relationships, express gratitude, and ensure continued goodwill.

Abraham and Abimelech

One of the earliest examples of this practice is found in the relationship between Abraham and Abimelech. After resolving a dispute over a well, Abraham gave sheep and cattle to Abimelech as a sign of their covenant and peaceful relations. Genesis 21:27 states, "So Abraham took sheep and cattle and gave them to Abimelech, and the two men made a covenant." This exchange of gifts served to solidify their agreement and mutual respect.

Jacob and Esau

The account of Jacob and Esau provides another instance where gifts were used to mend relationships and ensure peace. After years of estrangement, Jacob prepared a generous gift for Esau to appease him and seek reconciliation. Genesis 32:13-15 describes Jacob's offering: "Jacob spent the night there, and from what he had brought with him, he selected a gift for his brother Esau: 200 female goats, 20 male goats, 200 ewes, 20 rams, 30 milk camels with their young, 40 cows, 10 bulls, 20 female donkeys, and 10 male donkeys." This act of giving was instrumental in their eventual reconciliation.

Joseph and His Brothers

In the narrative of Joseph and his brothers, gifts played a crucial role in the restoration of familial bonds. When Joseph, who had risen to power in Egypt, revealed his identity to his brothers, he sent them back to Canaan with gifts for their father, Jacob. Genesis 45:21-23 recounts, "So the sons of Israel did as Joseph instructed. Joseph gave them wagons as Pharaoh had commanded, and he also gave them provisions for their journey. He gave new garments to each of them, but to Benjamin he gave three hundred shekels of silver and five sets of clothes. And he sent to his father the following: ten donkeys loaded with the best products of Egypt, and ten female donkeys loaded with grain, bread, and other provisions for his journey." These gifts were a tangible expression of Joseph's forgiveness and desire for family unity.

David and Barzillai

The account of David and Barzillai illustrates the giving of gifts as a token of gratitude and honor. After Absalom's rebellion, Barzillai, a wealthy Gileadite, provided for King David and his men. When David was returning to Jerusalem, he offered to take Barzillai with him, but Barzillai declined due to his old age. Instead, David blessed him and sent him away with gifts. 2 Samuel 19:39 notes, "Then all the people crossed the Jordan, and when the king had crossed, he kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and Barzillai returned to his home."

Cultural and Theological Significance

The giving of presents when sending away friends reflects a deep-seated cultural norm that emphasizes the importance of relationships, hospitality, and the expression of goodwill. In the biblical context, these acts of giving are not merely social customs but are imbued with theological significance. They often symbolize reconciliation, covenantal relationships, and the blessings of God upon those who honor Him and their fellow human beings.

The practice of giving gifts in these contexts underscores the biblical principles of generosity, gratitude, and the pursuit of peace. It serves as a reminder of the importance of maintaining harmonious relationships and the role of tangible expressions of love and respect in achieving this goal.
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Genesis 45:22
To all of them he gave each man changes of raiment; but to Benjamin he gave three hundred pieces of silver, and five changes of raiment.
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Jeremiah 40:5
Now while he was not yet gone back, he said, Go back also to Gedaliah the son of Ahikam the son of Shaphan, whom the king of Babylon has made governor over the cities of Judah, and dwell with him among the people: or go wherever it seems convenient to you to go. So the captain of the guard gave him victuals and a reward, and let him go.
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The Reconnoitering of Greece.
... costly articles to be provided and given to Democedes ... Some of these presents were
for the friends of Democedes ... they could not be steered, and were thus entirely ...
/.../abbott/darius the great/chapter vi the reconnoitering of.htm

Ancestors of the Blessed virgin
... driven off to the Temple; the poor were given the next ... sent her back to her parents
with presents and accompanied ... was a very large one, there were arbors and ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/i ancestors of the blessed.htm

St. Cyprian.
... to forgive those to whom they had given letters desiring ... their distress, by sending
them money and other presents. ... under Decius, so that there were now very ...
/.../chapter viii st cyprian.htm

Perseverance Proved.
... expected, if the doctrine as I have stated it, were true ... hath sent me, that of all
which he hath given me I ... few words sum up the argument, as he here presents it ...
/.../finney/systematic theology/lecture xlix perseverance proved.htm

The Story of Panthea.
... Panthea's preparations."Panthea offers her presents."Abradates's pleasure ... the enemy
when the signal should be given. All eyes were turned to the magnificent ...
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The Fight with Wild Beasts at Ephesus
... of the goddess second; but the precedence given to the ... by trustful looks to Heaven
and unspoken prayers, presents! ... who sent to dissuade him, 'were the heads of ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture the acts/the fight with wild beasts.htm

How David, when He had Twice the Opportunity of Killing Saul did ...
... be our king." Accordingly, David accepted her presents, and said ... that could guard
him, and had given many demonstrations ... the six hundred men that were with him ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 13 how david when.htm

P??dobaptism. Its Accordance with the Institution of Christ, and ...
... The name of disciples is given to men of full ... that these reprobate spirits, as if
they were under the ... of divine grace which the promise itself presents to our ...
/.../chapter 16 paedobaptism its accordance.htm

Appendix.
... from which any opposition to sending bishops to ... by the hands of faithful brethren,
these presents, in glad ... office, and which, we understand, were given by the ...
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Of the Navigation of King Agrippa to Rome, to Tiberius Caesar; and ...
... and a great deal in the immoderate presents he made ... not courage to believe it; not
because they were unwilling it ... be true, for they would have given huge sums ...
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Presents

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Presents were Given: As Tribute

Presents were Given: At Marriages

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Presents were Given: On Sending Away Friends

Presents were Given: To Appease the Angry Feelings of Others

Presents were Given: To Confirm Covenants

Presents were Given: To Judges to Secure a Favourable Hearing

Presents were Given: To Kings to Engage Their Aid

Presents were Given: To Reward Service

Presents were Given: To Show Respect

Presents: Antiquity of

Presents: Considered Essential on all Visits of Business

Presents: Generally Presented in Person

Presents: Generally Procured a Favourable Reception

Presents: Laid out and Presented With Great Ceremony

Presents: Not Bringing, Considered a Mark of Disrespect

Presents: Often Borne by Servants

Presents: Often Conveyed on Camels

Presents: Receiving of, a Token of Good Will

Presents: Sometimes Sent Before the Giver

Presents: Things Given as Cattle

Presents: Things Given as Food

Presents: Things Given as Garments

Presents: Things Given as Gold and Silver Vessels

Presents: Things Given as Horses and Mules

Presents: Things Given as Money

Presents: Things Given as Ornaments

Presents: Things Given as Precious Stones

Presents: Things Given as Servants

Presents: Things Given as Weapons of War

Presents: when Small or Defective, Refused

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