Divorce Forgiveness
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Divorce, a subject of significant concern within Christian theology, is addressed in various passages throughout the Bible. The concept of forgiveness in the context of divorce is deeply rooted in the broader biblical themes of grace, repentance, and reconciliation. This entry explores the biblical perspective on divorce and the possibility of forgiveness for those who have experienced it.

Biblical Context of Divorce

The Bible acknowledges the reality of divorce but presents it as contrary to God's original design for marriage. In Genesis 2:24 , marriage is described as a union where "a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This foundational principle underscores the permanence and sanctity of the marital bond.

In the Old Testament, the Mosaic Law permitted divorce under certain circumstances. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 outlines the procedure for a man to issue a certificate of divorce if he finds "something indecent" about his wife. However, this concession was not an endorsement of divorce but a regulation to address the hardness of human hearts (cf. Matthew 19:8).

Jesus' Teaching on Divorce

Jesus Christ addressed the issue of divorce directly, emphasizing the sanctity of marriage and the seriousness of divorce. In Matthew 19:3-9 , when questioned by the Pharisees about the lawfulness of divorce, Jesus reaffirmed the Genesis account, stating, "Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." He acknowledged that Moses permitted divorce due to the hardness of human hearts but clarified that it was not so from the beginning.

Jesus further taught that divorce, except in cases of sexual immorality, leads to adultery if either party remarries (Matthew 19:9). This teaching highlights the gravity of divorce and the need for careful consideration before dissolving a marriage.

Forgiveness and Restoration

Despite the seriousness of divorce, the Bible offers hope for forgiveness and restoration. The New Testament consistently emphasizes God's willingness to forgive those who repent and seek His mercy. In 1 John 1:9 , believers are assured, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

The account of the woman caught in adultery in John 8:1-11 illustrates Jesus' compassion and readiness to forgive. When the Pharisees sought to condemn her, Jesus responded, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to cast a stone at her." After her accusers left, Jesus told her, "Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more." This encounter demonstrates the possibility of forgiveness and a new beginning for those who have sinned.

Pastoral Care and Community Support

The church plays a vital role in extending forgiveness and support to those affected by divorce. Galatians 6:1-2 instructs believers to "restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness" and to "carry one another's burdens." This call to compassionate care encourages the Christian community to offer grace and support to divorced individuals, helping them find healing and restoration.

In conclusion, while divorce is a serious matter in the biblical narrative, the overarching message of Scripture is one of forgiveness and redemption. Through repentance and faith in Christ, individuals who have experienced divorce can find forgiveness and the opportunity for a renewed relationship with God and others.
Topical Bible Verses
Malachi 2:16
For the LORD, the God of Israel, said that he hates putting away: for one covers violence with his garment, said the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that you deal not treacherously.
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Deuteronomy 24:1-4
When a man has taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he has found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorce, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
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Matthew 19:9
And I say to you, Whoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery: and whoever marries her which is put away does commit adultery.
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1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
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Ephesians 1:7
In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;
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Sanctification.
... and lastly to pronounce it injurious, yea, even dangerous; so did the cry for good
works induce Rome gradually to divorce the mystery of the forgiveness of sin ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/kuyper/the work of the holy spirit/i sanctification.htm

General Index
... The Apostles' Creed Evils of divorce . . . . . ... 76 Forgiveness of sins . . . . . ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kinkead/baltimore catechism no 4/general index.htm

Index.
... Divorce, 233, 328 ... 433; the necessary condition of aid from Christ, 196, 266, 285;
the centurion's, 239; power of, 285, 358, 433; faith and forgiveness, 211, 279 ...
/.../neander/the life of jesus christ in its historical connexion/index 2.htm

His Life
... THE GREATEST DISCIPLE. FORGIVENESS. THE SHEKEL FOR THE TEMPLE. ... THE PHARISEE AND THE
PUBLICAN. CONCERNING DIVORCE. JESUS AND THE CHILDREN. THE RICH YOUNG RULER. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/barton/his life/

Our Lord's Sermon on the Mount.
... Devil, the, [37]14; speaking with God, [38]44. Divorce, [39]17-22; Woolsey on,
[40]22 (note). ... Fasting, [53]47. Forgiveness, [54]43, [55]46. ...
/.../sermons on selected lessons of the new testament/our lords sermon on the.htm

The Sermon on the Mount.
... God knows only complete forgiveness or complete exaction. ... wife, saving for the cause
of fornication, maketh her an adulteress [the mere fact of divorce did not ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/xlii the sermon on the 4.htm

Origen's Commentary on the Gospel of Matthew
... The Time of the Reckoning. 13. No Forgiveness to the Unforgiving. 14. How Jesus
Finished His Words. ... 18. The Bill of Divorcement. 19. The Divorce of Israel. 20. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/origen/origens commentary on the gospel of matthew/

The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah
... TO SINNERS - RABBINIC THEOLOGY AS REGARDS THE DOCTRINE OF FORGIVENESS IN CONTRAST ...
LEPERS - PROPHETIC DISCOURSE OF THE COMING KINGDOM - ON DIVORCE: JEWISH VIEWS ...
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A New Age and New Standards
... The Mosaic provision for divorce was a concession to the low moral level of the ... for
all men would know God by an inward experience of forgiveness and love ...
/.../rauschenbusch/the social principles of jesus/chapter vi a new age.htm

My Daily Meditation for the Circling Year
... FORGIVENESS. APRIL The Twenty-fourth LIMITED FORGIVENESS. APRIL The Twenty-fifth
THE HIDDEN FOES. ... SEPTEMBER The Eleventh A FATAL DIVORCE. SEPTEMBER ...
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Resources
What does Malachi 2:16 mean when God says, “I hate divorce”? | GotQuestions.org

Is the divorce rate among Christians truly the same as among non-Christians? | GotQuestions.org

What does Deuteronomy 24 teach about divorce? | GotQuestions.org

Divorce: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Divorce

Divorce and Adultery

Divorce and Getting Remarried

Divorce and Separation

Divorce Forgiveness

Divorce in the New Testament

Divorce in the Old Testament

Divorce of Captives, Regulated by Law

Divorce of Servants, Regulated by Law

Divorce: Disobedience of the Wife to the Husband, a Sufficient Cause For, in the Persian Empire

Divorce: Figurative

Divorce: Forbidden by Christ Except for Adultery

Divorce: Forced on Those Who had Idolatrous Wives

Divorce: General Scriptures Concerning

Divorce: Illustrative of God's Casting off of the Jewish Church

Divorce: Jews Condemned for Love of

Divorce: Law of Marriage Against

Divorce: Not Allowed to Those Who Falsely Accused Their Wives

Divorce: Often Sought by the Jews

Divorce: Permitted by the Mosaic Law

Divorce: Permitted: On Account of Hardness of Heart

Divorce: Priests not to Marry Women After

Divorce: Prohibition of, offended the Jews

Divorce: Sought on Slight Grounds

Divorce: Women: Afflicted By

Divorce: Women: Could Marry After

Divorce: Women: Could Obtain

Divorce: Women: Married After, Could not Return to First Husband

Divorce: Women: Responsible for Vows After

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