Reverence for Parents
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Reverence for parents is a fundamental principle deeply rooted in the biblical tradition, emphasizing the importance of honoring and respecting one's father and mother. This concept is not only a social or cultural expectation but is presented as a divine commandment with spiritual significance and promises attached.

Biblical Foundation

The command to honor one's parents is prominently featured in the Ten Commandments, which serve as a cornerstone of moral and ethical conduct in the Judeo-Christian tradition. Exodus 20:12 states, "Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you." This commandment is reiterated in Deuteronomy 5:16 , underscoring its enduring importance.

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul reaffirms this commandment in his epistles. Ephesians 6:1-3 instructs, "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother' (which is the first commandment with a promise), 'that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth.'" Here, Paul highlights the promise of well-being and longevity associated with honoring one's parents, emphasizing its continued relevance for Christian believers.

Spiritual and Moral Implications

Reverence for parents is not merely an external act of obedience but is deeply connected to one's relationship with God. The family unit is often seen as a microcosm of the larger community of faith, and the respect shown within the family reflects one's reverence for God. Proverbs 1:8-9 advises, "Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction, and do not forsake the teaching of your mother. For they are a garland of grace on your head and a pendant around your neck." This passage highlights the wisdom and guidance that parents provide, which are to be cherished and respected.

Consequences of Disrespect

The Bible also addresses the consequences of failing to honor one's parents. In the Old Testament, severe penalties were prescribed for those who cursed or struck their parents, as seen in Exodus 21:15, 17 : "Anyone who strikes his father or mother must surely be put to death... Anyone who curses his father or mother must surely be put to death." While these laws reflect the cultural and legal context of ancient Israel, they underscore the seriousness with which God views the relationship between children and parents.

In the New Testament, Jesus rebukes the Pharisees for neglecting the commandment to honor their parents in favor of man-made traditions. In Mark 7:9-13 , He criticizes them for allowing people to declare their resources as "Corban" (a gift devoted to God) to avoid supporting their parents, thus nullifying the word of God for the sake of tradition.

Practical Application

Reverence for parents extends beyond childhood and adolescence into adulthood, encompassing care and respect for aging parents. 1 Timothy 5:4 advises, "But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they must first learn to show godliness to their own family and to repay their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God." This passage highlights the ongoing responsibility of adult children to care for their parents, reflecting the enduring nature of this commandment.

In summary, reverence for parents is a vital aspect of biblical teaching, deeply intertwined with one's spiritual life and relationship with God. It is a commandment that carries both immediate and eternal implications, promising blessings for those who uphold it and warning of consequences for those who disregard it.
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Exodus 20:12
Honor your father and your mother: that your days may be long on the land which the LORD your God gives you.
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Leviticus 19:3
You shall fear every man his mother, and his father, and keep my sabbaths: I am the LORD your God.
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Isaiah 45:10
Woe to him that said to his father, What beget you? or to the woman, What have you brought forth?
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Whether Consanguinity is an Impediment to Marriage by virtue of ...
... reverence towards their parents: yet to no kind of animal save man has she instilled
a lasting solicitude for his children or reverence for parents; but to ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether consanguinity is an impediment.htm

Naaman
... lives are a true reflection of the divine, so that the promises and commands of
God awaken in the child gratitude and reverence; the parents whose tenderness ...
/.../white/the story of prophets and kings/chapter 20 naaman.htm

Song 23. Obedience to Parents.
... Hear what their teachers say; With reverence meet their parents' word,. And
with delight obey. Have you not heard what dreadful plagues. ...
/.../watts/divine and moral songs/song 23 obedience to parents.htm

Song 23. Obedience to Parents.
... Obedience to Parents. 1 Let children that would fear the Lord Hear what their teachers
say; With reverence meet their parents' word, And with delight obey. ...
/.../watts/divine songs for children/song 23 obedience to parents.htm

If, under any Pretence of Piety, any Children Shall Forsake their ...
... piety, any children shall forsake their parents, particularly [if the parents are]
believers, and shall withhold becoming reverence from their parents, on the ...
/.../schaff/the seven ecumenical councils/canon xvi if under any.htm

Whether Piety Provides Support for Our Parents?
... I answer that, We owe something to our parents in two ways: that is to say ... through
being the principle of his being, the latter owes him reverence and service. ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether piety provides support for.htm

A Condensed Guide for Life
... Reverence for parents and teachers, the habitual 'fear of the Lord,' temperance,
eager efforts to win and retain 'the truth,' have always been recognised as ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture g/a condensed guide for life.htm

Leviticus
... The holiness which Jehovah demands has to express itself not only in reverence for
Himself and His Sabbaths, but in reverence towards parents and the aged; in ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/mcfadyen/introduction to the old testament/leviticus.htm

Exhortations to the Discharge of Relative Duties.
... Chapter IX."Exhortations to the discharge of relative duties. Ye husbands, love
your wives; and ye wives, your husbands. Ye children, reverence your parents. ...
/.../chapter ix exhortations to the discharge.htm

Ephesians vi. 3-Jan
... out. And observe how admirable a foundation he has laid for the path of
virtue, that is, honor and reverence towards parents. When ...
/.../homily xxi ephesians vi 3-jan.htm

Resources
According to the Bible, to whom are we to be submissive, and why? | GotQuestions.org

How is the fear of the Lord the beginning of wisdom? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about impiety? What does it mean to be impious? | GotQuestions.org

Reverence: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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