David, the second king of Israel, is a prominent biblical figure whose life and reign are extensively documented in the Old Testament. Among his many roles, David is depicted as a father whose deep affection for his children is evident throughout the biblical narrative. His experiences as a parent provide valuable insights into the nature of parental love and the complexities that accompany it.

David's Love for Absalom

One of the most poignant examples of David's parental affection is his relationship with his son Absalom. Despite Absalom's rebellion against him, David's love for his son remains steadfast. In 2 Samuel 18:33 , after hearing of Absalom's death, David's grief is palpable: "The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. As he walked, he cried out, 'O my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!'" This expression of sorrow highlights the depth of David's love, demonstrating that his affection for Absalom transcended the betrayal and conflict between them.

David's Concern for His Children's Well-being

David's concern for the well-being of his children is further illustrated in his interactions with them. In 2 Samuel 13, the tragic account of Amnon and Tamar unfolds, revealing David's distress over the events that transpire within his family. Although David's response to the situation is complex and fraught with challenges, his initial reaction of anger (2 Samuel 13:21) indicates his protective instincts and concern for his children's welfare.

David's Instruction and Guidance

David's role as a father also involved providing instruction and guidance to his children. In 1 Kings 2:1-3 , as David's life draws to a close, he offers Solomon, his son and successor, a charge that underscores the importance of obedience to God's commandments: "As the time drew near for David to die, he charged his son Solomon, saying, 'I am about to go the way of all the earth. So be strong and prove yourself a man. And keep the charge of the LORD your God, walking in His ways and keeping His statutes, commandments, ordinances, and decrees, as it is written in the Law of Moses, so that you may prosper in all you do and wherever you turn.'" This passage reflects David's desire to impart wisdom and ensure that his son follows a righteous path.

David's Imperfect Yet Genuine Love

While David's love for his children is evident, his account also serves as a reminder of the imperfections inherent in human relationships. His failure to adequately address the sins and conflicts within his family, such as the incident between Amnon and Tamar, reveals the challenges and shortcomings that can accompany parental affection. Nevertheless, David's genuine love for his children remains a central theme, illustrating the enduring bond between parent and child.

In summary, David's life as a parent is marked by profound love, concern, and a desire to guide his children in the ways of the Lord. His experiences offer a rich tapestry of lessons on the nature of parental affection, highlighting both its strengths and its challenges.2 Samuel 12:18-23
And it came to pass on the seventh day, that the child died. And the servants of David feared to tell him that the child was dead: for they said, Behold, while the child was yet alive, we spoke to him, and he would not listen to our voice: how will he then vex himself, if we tell him that the child is dead?
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2 Samuel 13:38,39
So Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.
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2 Samuel 14:1,33
Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's heart was toward Absalom.
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2 Samuel 18:5,12,13,33
And the king commanded Joab and Abishai and Ittai, saying, Deal gently for my sake with the young man, even with Absalom. And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains charge concerning Absalom.
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2 Samuel 19:1-6
And it was told Joab, Behold, the king weeps and mourns for Absalom.
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Match-Making.
... as the reluctant party promises an affection, which neither ... for life, from which
neither parents nor children ... in grace, to the discharge of parental duty, and ...
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The Pilgrim's Progress
... Christiana answered, First, the loss of my husband came into my mind, at which
I was heartily grieved; but all that was but natural affection. ...
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part ii
... unto the Lord against us in the words of the prophet David: "Our soul ... And how parents
grieve when their beloved children die, when they lie breathless before ...
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