Flattery: Seldom Gains Respect
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Flattery, often defined as excessive or insincere praise, is a topic addressed in various passages of the Bible. It is generally portrayed as a deceitful and manipulative practice that can lead to negative consequences. The Bible warns against the use of flattery, emphasizing that it seldom gains genuine respect and can lead to moral and spiritual pitfalls.

Biblical Warnings Against Flattery

The Scriptures provide numerous warnings about the dangers of flattery. In the book of Proverbs, a collection of wisdom literature, flattery is frequently associated with deceit and manipulation. Proverbs 26:28 states, "A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth causes ruin." This verse highlights the destructive nature of flattery, equating it with lies that can lead to harm and ruin.

Similarly, Proverbs 29:5 warns, "A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." Here, flattery is likened to a trap, suggesting that those who engage in it may ensnare themselves or others in harmful situations. The imagery of a net implies entanglement and danger, reinforcing the idea that flattery is not a path to genuine respect or success.

Flattery in the Psalms

The Psalms also address the issue of flattery, often in the context of deceit and wickedness. Psalm 12:2 laments, "They lie to one another; they speak with flattering lips and a double heart." This verse underscores the duplicity associated with flattery, as it involves speaking with insincerity and hidden motives. The psalmist's lament reflects a broader concern for truth and integrity in human relationships.

New Testament Perspectives

In the New Testament, the Apostle Paul addresses the issue of flattery in his letters to the early Christian communities. In 1 Thessalonians 2:5 , Paul writes, "As you know, we never used words of flattery or any pretext for greed. God is our witness!" Here, Paul distinguishes his ministry from those who might use flattery for personal gain, emphasizing sincerity and transparency in his approach to sharing the Gospel.

Paul's rejection of flattery aligns with the broader biblical theme that true respect and influence are gained through honesty and integrity, rather than through manipulative or deceitful speech.

Flattery and Its Consequences

The Bible consistently portrays flattery as a practice that can lead to negative outcomes. In Proverbs 7, the seductive words of the adulterous woman are described as flattering, leading a young man astray and ultimately to his downfall. This narrative serves as a cautionary tale about the seductive power of flattery and its potential to lead individuals away from righteousness.

Moreover, flattery is often associated with pride and self-exaltation, which are condemned throughout Scripture. Proverbs 28:23 states, "He who rebukes a man will later find more favor than one who flatters with his tongue." This verse suggests that honest correction, though initially unwelcome, ultimately earns more respect than insincere praise.

Conclusion

The biblical perspective on flattery is clear: it is a practice that seldom gains genuine respect and often leads to negative consequences. The Scriptures encourage believers to pursue honesty, integrity, and sincerity in their speech, warning against the deceptive allure of flattery. Through these teachings, the Bible underscores the importance of truthfulness and the dangers of manipulative communication.
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Proverbs 28:23
He that rebukes a man afterwards shall find more favor than he that flatters with the tongue.
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The Prayer of Jabez
... The best honor is that which a man gains in communion with the Most ... sentences of
praise, we may suspect, and we shall very seldom be unjust ... Beware of flattery. ...
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1 Cor. Iv. 10
... should suppose that the expression was flattery he produces ... moves heaven and earth
about his gains, who can be ... For even unto dogs, not seldom, through fear, we ...
/.../homilies on the epistles of paul to the corinthians/homily xiii 1 cor iv.htm

The Misery of Man Without God
... But sometimes nature gains the ascendancy and preserves man's ... We desire flattery,
and they flatter us. ... rare conjunctions of the heavens; so they seldom fail in ...
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Faustus States his Objections to the Morality of the Law and the ...
... its authors be punished, let the books be condemned, let the prophetic name be cleared
from this foul reproach, let the patriarchs recover the respect due to ...
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Resources
Who was Daniel in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

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