Flattery by Absalom
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Introduction

Flattery, as depicted in the biblical narrative of Absalom, serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of deceitful praise and manipulation for personal gain. Absalom, the third son of King David, is a prominent figure in the Old Testament known for his charm, ambition, and ultimately, his rebellion against his father. His use of flattery is a key element in his strategy to usurp the throne of Israel.

Biblical Context

The account of Absalom's flattery is primarily found in 2 Samuel 15. After reconciling with his father David following his exile for the murder of his brother Amnon, Absalom begins to plot a rebellion. His ambition to become king leads him to employ flattery as a tool to win the hearts of the people of Israel.

Absalom's Strategy

Absalom's flattery is a calculated effort to undermine King David's authority and gain popular support. He positions himself at the city gate, where he intercepts those coming to seek justice from the king. Absalom's approach is both strategic and deceitful:

1. Accessibility and Empathy: Absalom presents himself as accessible and empathetic, contrasting with the perceived inaccessibility of King David. He tells the people, "Look, your claims are good and right, but the king has no deputy to hear you" (2 Samuel 15:3). By doing so, he implies that their grievances are valid but neglected by the current administration.

2. False Promises: Absalom promises justice and fair treatment, saying, "Oh, that I were appointed judge in the land! Then every man with a grievance or dispute could come to me, and I would give him justice" (2 Samuel 15:4). This promise of better governance is a form of flattery, as it suggests that he alone can provide the justice they seek.

3. Personal Attention: Absalom further endears himself to the people by showing personal attention and humility. "Whenever anyone approached to bow down to him, Absalom would reach out his hand, take hold of him, and kiss him" (2 Samuel 15:5). This gesture of familiarity and respect flatters the individuals, making them feel valued and important.

Consequences of Flattery

Absalom's flattery is effective in winning the hearts of the Israelites, as noted in 2 Samuel 15:6: "So Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel" . His actions lead to a full-scale rebellion against King David, forcing David to flee Jerusalem. The flattery, however, is ultimately rooted in deceit and ambition, leading to Absalom's downfall and death.

Theological Implications

From a theological perspective, Absalom's use of flattery highlights the moral and spiritual dangers of deceit. Flattery, when used as a tool for manipulation, is condemned in Scripture. Proverbs 26:28 warns, "A lying tongue hates those it crushes, and a flattering mouth causes ruin" . Absalom's account serves as a reminder of the destructive power of insincere praise and the importance of integrity and truthfulness in leadership.

Conclusion

The account of Absalom's flattery is a powerful illustration of how charm and deceit can be used to manipulate and lead others astray. It underscores the need for discernment and the value of genuine, honest relationships in accordance with God's will.
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2 Samuel 15:2-6
And Absalom rose up early, and stood beside the way of the gate: and it was so, that when any man that had a controversy came to the king for judgment, then Absalom called to him, and said, Of what city are you? And he said, Your servant is of one of the tribes of Israel.
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We must Observe a Right Standard Between Too Great Mildness and ...
... I thy servant am of one of the tribes of Israel." And Absalom answered: "Thy ... For
flattery of this sort quickly finds its way to touch the very depths of the ...
/.../ambrose/works and letters of st ambrose/chapter xxii we must observe.htm

Sermon.
... which David had done displeased the Lord." If the pen of the writer who tells the
story of Absalom's rebellion had been guided by favour or flattery, the fact ...
//christianbookshelf.org/wright/is the young man absalom safe/sermon.htm

Philippians ii. 4-Jan
... Scriptures. What is flattery, and meanness, and adulation? Ziba ... master. (2
Samuel 16:1-3.) Much more did Ahitophel flatter Absalom. (2 ...
/.../homily v philippians ii 4-jan.htm

The Ninth Commandment
... Absalom told his father a lie, when he said that he was going to pay his vow at ... As
no flattery can heal a bad conscience, so no slander can hurt a good one. ...
/.../watson/the ten commandments/2 9 the ninth commandment.htm

2 Cor. xii. 1
... And Absalom, was he not sober-minded, whilst still an exile; but after ... of the soul's
immortality; and mingling therewith that excessive flattery, he seduced ...
/.../homilies on the epistles of paul to the corinthians/homily xxvi 2 cor xii.htm

Scriptures Showing the Sin and Danger of Joining with Wicked and ...
... Flattery, beauty of pretended religion, false witnessing and charging of the Lord's
people ... of repentance and being reconciled to the church, as Absalom's vow at ...
/.../binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/section v scriptures showing the.htm

Aron, Brother of Moses, 486, 487.
... Absalom, David's son, [17]4, [18]5; type of Judas the traitor, [19]4, [20]20. ... joy,
[802]60; for the Holy Spirit, [803]540; "oil of a sinner" flattery, [804]646 ...
/.../augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/aron brother of moses 486.htm

On the Great Athanasius, Bishop of Alexandria.
... for, though others took the active part in it, the hand of Absalom [3315] was ... as
had been shaken by fear, enslaved by need, fascinated by flattery, or beguiled ...
/.../cyril/lectures of s cyril of jerusalem/oration xxi on the great.htm

From the Close of the General Conference of 1816 to the ...
... hundred souls in Cynthiana and its vicinity, under the ministry of Absalom Hunt,
Le ... living it would be unseemly to speak in terms of fulsome flattery, while of ...
/.../chapter 4 from the close.htm

They Shall be Called the Children of God
... Let not ministers be either shaken with fear or seduced with flattery. ... They are like
music to a sad heart. He desires, as Absalom, to see the king's face'. ...
/.../the beatitudes an exposition of matthew 51-12/19 they shall be called.htm

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