Betrothal
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Betrothal in biblical times was a formal and binding agreement between a man and a woman to marry. It was more significant than modern-day engagements, carrying legal and social implications. The betrothal period served as a time of preparation and commitment, often lasting about a year, during which the couple was considered legally bound to each other, though they did not yet live together or consummate the marriage.

Biblical Context and Practices

In ancient Israel, betrothal was a covenantal agreement, often arranged by the families of the bride and groom. The process typically involved the payment of a bride price or dowry, known as the "mohar," which was given by the groom to the bride's family as a form of security and compensation. This practice is reflected in the account of Isaac and Rebekah, where Abraham's servant gives gifts to Rebekah's family as part of the betrothal process (Genesis 24:53).

The betrothal was legally binding, and breaking it required a formal divorce. This is evident in the account of Mary and Joseph, where Joseph, upon discovering Mary's pregnancy, considered divorcing her quietly, even though they were only betrothed (Matthew 1:18-19). The seriousness of betrothal is further underscored by the Mosaic Law, which treated infidelity during this period as adultery (Deuteronomy 22:23-24).

Cultural and Theological Significance

Betrothal was not only a social contract but also held deep theological significance. It symbolized a covenant relationship, mirroring the covenant between God and His people. The prophets often used the imagery of betrothal to describe God's relationship with Israel, portraying God as the faithful husband and Israel as the bride (Hosea 2:19-20).

In the New Testament, the concept of betrothal is used to illustrate the relationship between Christ and the Church. The Apostle Paul writes to the Corinthians, expressing his desire to present them as a pure bride to Christ, highlighting the Church's betrothal to Jesus (2 Corinthians 11:2). This imagery emphasizes the commitment, purity, and anticipation of the future union between Christ and His followers.

Legal and Social Implications

During the betrothal period, the couple was expected to remain faithful to each other. Any breach of this commitment was considered a serious offense. The legal implications of betrothal are evident in the laws concerning sexual immorality and the consequences for those who violated the betrothal agreement (Exodus 22:16-17).

The social aspect of betrothal also played a significant role in the community. It was a public declaration of the couple's intention to marry, often celebrated with a feast or ceremony. The betrothal period allowed families to prepare for the upcoming marriage, ensuring that all necessary arrangements were made.

Conclusion

Betrothal in biblical times was a profound and binding commitment, reflecting both legal and spiritual dimensions. It served as a precursor to marriage, emphasizing faithfulness, preparation, and the anticipation of a lifelong covenant. Through the lens of Scripture, betrothal is seen as a reflection of God's covenantal relationship with His people, ultimately pointing to the union between Christ and the Church.
Topical Bible Verses
2 Corinthians 11:2
For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.
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Luke 1:27
To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary.
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Matthew 1:18
Now the birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost.
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Deuteronomy 24:1-4
When a man has taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he has found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorce, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
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Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
(n.) Engagement for marriage; betrothing, or the fact of being betrothed; a mutual promise, engagement, or contract for a future marriage between the persons betrothed; betrothment; affiance.
Strong's Hebrew
3623. kelulah -- betrothal
... 3622, 3623. kelulah. 3624 . betrothal. Transliteration: kelulah Phonetic
Spelling: (kel-oo-law') Short Definition: betrothal. Word ...
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Library

Whether Affinity is Caused by Betrothal?
... OF THE IMPEDIMENT OF AFFINITY (ELEVEN ARTICLES) Whether affinity is caused by betrothal? ...
Yet this is much more akin to carnal intercourse than a betrothal. ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether affinity is caused by.htm

Whether a Betrothal is a Promise of Future Marriage?
... OF MATRIMONY WITH REGARD TO THE BETROTHAL (THREE ARTICLES) Whether a
betrothal is a promise of future marriage? Objection 1: It ...
//christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether a betrothal is a.htm

Whether a Betrothal Can be Dissolved?
... OF MATRIMONY WITH REGARD TO THE BETROTHAL (THREE ARTICLES) Whether a betrothal
can be dissolved? Objection 1: It would seem that ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether a betrothal can be.htm

Of Matrimony with Regard to the Betrothal (Three Articles)
... OF MATRIMONY WITH REGARD TO THE BETROTHAL (THREE ARTICLES). In ... inquiry:
(1) What is the betrothal? (2) Who can contract a betrothal? ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/of matrimony with regard to.htm

Whether Seven Years is Fittingly Assigned as the Age for Betrothal ...
... OF MATRIMONY WITH REGARD TO THE BETROTHAL (THREE ARTICLES) Whether seven years
is fittingly assigned as the age for betrothal? Objection ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether seven years is fittingly.htm

Society Soon Learned the News of the Countess Hermenstein's ...
... XXVII. Society soon learned the news of the Countess Hermenstein's betrothal
to the "eccentric Englishman? Society soon learned ...
/.../corelli/the master-christian/xxvii society soon learned the.htm

Whether an Oath Added to the Consent that is Expressed in Words of ...
... Objection 4: Further, the simple uttering of words relating to the future makes
a betrothal. ... Therefore it makes something more than a betrothal. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether an oath added to.htm

Whether a Believer Can Marry an Unbeliever?
... Objection 3: Further, betrothal is directed to marriage. Now there can
be a betrothal between a believer and an unbeliever in the ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether a believer can marry.htm

The Marriage Feast in Cana of Galilee - the Miracle that is a Sign ...
... [1724] A special formality, that of betrothal' (Erusin Qiddushin), preceded the
actual marriage by a period varying in length, but not exceeding a twelvemonth ...
/.../the life and times of jesus the messiah/chapter iv the marriage feast.htm

Turn Away Thine Eyes from Me, Because they have Made Me to Flee ...
... The Betrothal, or mutual engagement, is made in the union of the powers when the
soul surrenders herself wholly to God, and God gives Himself wholly to the soul ...
/.../guyon/song of songs of solomon/4 turn away thine eyes.htm

Thesaurus
Betrothal (1 Occurrence)
... betrothment; affiance. Multi-Version Concordance Betrothal (1 Occurrence).
Matthew 1:19 But Joseph her husband, being a kind-hearted ...
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Betroth (5 Occurrences)
... From the time of betrothal the woman was regarded as the lawful wife of the man
to whom she was betrothed (Deuteronomy 28:30; Judges 14:2, 8; Matthew 1:18-21). ...
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Marriage (74 Occurrences)
... mar'-ij: Introduction Scope and Viewpoint of the Present Article 1. Marriage among
the Hebrews 2. Betrothal the First Formal Part 3. Wedding Ceremonies 4. Jesus ...
/m/marriage.htm - 62k

Espousal
... 1. (n.) The act of espousing or betrothing; especially, in the plural, betrothal;
plighting of the troths; a contract of marriage; sometimes, the marriage ...
/e/espousal.htm - 7k

Betrothed (19 Occurrences)

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Kind-hearted (3 Occurrences)
... Matthew 1:19 But Joseph her husband, being a kind-hearted man and unwilling publicly
to disgrace her, had determined to release her privately from the betrothal...
/k/kind-hearted.htm - 7k

Unwilling (30 Occurrences)
... Matthew 1:19 But Joseph her husband, being a kind-hearted man and unwilling publicly
to disgrace her, had determined to release her privately from the betrothal...
/u/unwilling.htm - 14k

Witness (295 Occurrences)
... Important legal agreements required the attestation of witnesses, as in the case
of the purchase of property, or a betrothal (Ruth 4:1-11, where we are told ...
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Troth (1 Occurrence)
... 1. (n.) Belief; faith; fidelity. 2. (n.) Truth; verity; veracity; as, by my troth.
3. (n.) Betrothal. Multi-Version Concordance Troth (1 Occurrence). ...
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Release (61 Occurrences)
... Matthew 1:19 But Joseph her husband, being a kind-hearted man and unwilling publicly
to disgrace her, had determined to release her privately from the betrothal...
/r/release.htm - 26k

Resources
What was betrothal in biblical times? | GotQuestions.org

What were common marriage customs in Bible times? | GotQuestions.org

Are there parallels between Jewish wedding traditions and our relationship to Christ? | GotQuestions.org

Betrothal: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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