Sorrow of Mary and Martha
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The sorrow of Mary and Martha is a poignant episode in the New Testament, encapsulated in the Gospel of John, chapter 11. This narrative not only highlights the deep human emotions of grief and loss but also serves as a profound testament to the power and compassion of Jesus Christ.

Context and Background

Mary and Martha, along with their brother Lazarus, were close friends of Jesus. They resided in Bethany, a village near Jerusalem. The family is introduced in the Gospel of Luke, where Martha is depicted as a hospitable woman, and Mary is shown sitting at Jesus' feet, listening to His teachings (Luke 10:38-42). This family’s relationship with Jesus is characterized by mutual love and respect.

The Illness and Death of Lazarus

The sorrowful event begins with Lazarus falling gravely ill. Mary and Martha send word to Jesus, saying, "Lord, behold, he whom You love is sick" (John 11:3). This message underscores their faith in Jesus' ability to heal and their close relationship with Him. However, Jesus, upon hearing this, states, "This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it" (John 11:4). Despite the urgency, Jesus remains where He is for two more days before deciding to go to Bethany.

The Arrival of Jesus

By the time Jesus arrives, Lazarus has been in the tomb for four days. The delay is significant, as Jewish belief held that the soul lingered near the body for three days; thus, the fourth day signifies the finality of death. Martha, upon hearing of Jesus' arrival, goes out to meet Him, expressing both her grief and her faith: "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know that God will give You whatever You ask of Him" (John 11:21-22).

Jesus responds with a profound declaration, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in Me will live, even though he dies" (John 11:25). Martha affirms her belief in Jesus as the Messiah, the Son of God.

Mary's Grief

Mary, in her sorrow, also approaches Jesus, falling at His feet and echoing her sister's words: "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died" (John 11:32). Her weeping, along with the mourning of the Jews who accompanied her, deeply moves Jesus. The text notes, "When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit and troubled" (John 11:33). This moment reveals the depth of Jesus' empathy and His shared sorrow with humanity.

Jesus Weeps

The shortest verse in the Bible, "Jesus wept" (John 11:35), encapsulates the profound compassion of Christ. His tears are a testament to His genuine love for Lazarus and His empathy for the pain of Mary and Martha. This moment underscores the dual nature of Christ, fully divine yet fully human, capable of feeling and expressing deep emotions.

The Miracle of Resurrection

Despite the overwhelming sorrow, the narrative culminates in a miraculous demonstration of Jesus' divine authority. Jesus approaches the tomb and commands, "Lazarus, come out!" (John 11:43). Lazarus emerges, still bound in grave clothes, alive and restored. This miracle not only alleviates the sorrow of Mary and Martha but also serves as a powerful sign of Jesus' victory over death, foreshadowing His own resurrection.

Theological Significance

The sorrow of Mary and Martha, juxtaposed with the resurrection of Lazarus, offers profound theological insights. It illustrates the reality of human suffering and the compassionate response of Christ. Moreover, it affirms the Christian hope in the resurrection and eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ. This narrative reassures believers of Christ's presence and power in the midst of life's deepest sorrows.
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John 11:19-40
And many of the Jews came to Martha and Mary, to comfort them concerning their brother.
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The Voice that Waked the Dead --The Children of the Kingdom.
... Jesus and fall at His feet saying, as Martha did,. ... When Jesus saw the tears of Mary
and her sister and ... His heart was moved for them, and He shared their sorrow. ...
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The Open Grave at Bethany
... Why did Jesus stay outside Bethany and summon Martha and Mary to come to ... mourners
whose presence affronted the majesty and sanctity of sorrow, and that He ...
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The Death of Lazarus. --Christ's Conversation with Martha (John ...
... intelligence of Christ's approach to Bethany reached Martha sooner than ... Mary, lost
in grief, gave no heed to the ... give up to an excess of sorrow, followed after ...
/.../section 232 the death of.htm

Again, on the Words of the Gospel, Luke x. 38, Etc. , About Martha ...
... life of labour, and the life of quiet, the life of sorrow, and the ... a wicked life
was far from that house, and was neither with Martha nor with Mary; and if ...
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The Seventh Miracle in John's Gospel --The Raising of Lazarus
... all that mourn, and swifter and readier for our work"such a sorrow is doing ... Lord
took into the same sanctuary of His pure heart, Mary and Martha, and her ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture i/the seventh miracle in johns.htm

"Lazarus, Come Forth"
... But it was not only because of His human sympathy with Mary and Martha that Jesus
wept. In His tears there was a sorrow as high above human sorrow as the ...
/.../white/the desire of ages/chapter 58 lazarus come forth.htm

Anointed for Burial.
... Martha, in accordance with all that we have learned of her active ... That woman washed
his feet with her tears of sorrow; those of Mary were tears of ...
/.../johnson/the new testament commentary vol iii john/anointed for burial.htm

On the Feast of St Mary Magdalene
... best part," [24] and He rebuked Martha, because she ... God, St John the Baptist, and
Mary Magdalene, and ... an unjustifiable waste of time and much outward sorrow. ...
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Particulars
... sisters did not go to Jesus: Martha does not go, till the hears Jesus is near the
house; and Mary stays still at home; all arguments of true sorrow, and that ...
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A Mystery! Saints Sorrowing and Jesus Glad!
... Martha and Mary are weeping their eyes out for sorrow, and yet their friend
Jesus is glad! It is strange, it is passing strange! ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 10 1864/a mystery saints sorrowing and.htm

Resources
What is godly sorrow? | GotQuestions.org

How is sorrow better than laughter (Ecclesiastes 7:3)? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about sadness? | GotQuestions.org

Sorrow: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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