Not Fitting In
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Definition and Context:
The concept of "not fitting in" refers to the experience of feeling out of place or different from those around us. In a biblical context, this can relate to the experience of believers who find themselves at odds with the values, practices, or beliefs of the surrounding culture or community. This theme is prevalent throughout Scripture, as God's people are often called to live in a manner distinct from the world.

Biblical Examples:

1. Abraham:
Abraham is a prime example of someone who did not fit in. Called by God to leave his homeland and journey to an unknown land (Genesis 12:1), Abraham lived as a foreigner in Canaan. Hebrews 11:9-10 states, "By faith he dwelt in the promised land as a stranger in a foreign country. He lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God."

2. Joseph:
Joseph, sold into slavery by his brothers, found himself in Egypt, a land with customs and beliefs vastly different from his own. Despite his circumstances, Joseph remained faithful to God, which set him apart from those around him. His integrity and wisdom eventually led to his rise in power, as seen in Genesis 41:39-40 : "Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, 'Since God has made all this known to you, there is no one as discerning and wise as you. You shall be in charge of my house, and all my people are to obey your commands.'"

3. Daniel:
Daniel and his friends were taken captive to Babylon, a place with foreign gods and practices. They chose not to defile themselves with the king's food and wine, maintaining their distinct identity as followers of the God of Israel. Daniel 1:8 notes, "But Daniel resolved in his heart that he would not defile himself with the king’s food or wine."

4. Jesus Christ:
Jesus Himself experienced not fitting in, as He was often at odds with the religious leaders and societal norms of His time. John 1:10-11 states, "He was in the world, and though the world was made through Him, the world did not recognize Him. He came to His own, but His own did not receive Him."

5. Early Christians:
The early church faced persecution and alienation from both Jewish and Roman societies. The Apostle Peter encouraged believers to embrace their status as "foreigners and exiles" (1 Peter 2:11), urging them to live godly lives despite their circumstances.

Theological Insights:

· Holiness and Separation:
The Bible calls believers to be holy, which often means being set apart from the world. Leviticus 20:26 says, "You are to be holy to Me because I, the LORD, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be My own."

· Transformation and Renewal:
Romans 12:2 instructs, "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." This transformation often results in believers not fitting in with worldly patterns.

· Persecution and Suffering:
Jesus warned His followers that they would face persecution for His sake. In John 15:19 , He said, "If you were of the world, it would love you as its own. Instead, the world hates you, because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world."

Practical Application:

· Embrace Identity in Christ:
Believers are encouraged to find their identity in Christ rather than in societal acceptance. Galatians 2:20 declares, "I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me."

· Community and Fellowship:
While not fitting in with the world, Christians are called to find fellowship and support within the body of Christ. Hebrews 10:24-25 urges, "And let us consider how to spur one another on to love and good deeds. Let us not neglect meeting together, as some have made a habit, but let us encourage one another."

· Witness and Influence:
Believers are called to be salt and light in the world (Matthew 5:13-16), influencing those around them through their distinctiveness and commitment to God's truth.
Topical Bible Verses
John 17:14
I have given them your word; and the world has hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world.
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John 15:19
If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.
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2 Timothy 3:12
Yes, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution.
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Greek
809. aschemon -- shapeless, ie fig. unseemly
... without" and 4976 , "external shape") -- properly, lacking proper appeal (), ie
(unattractive); lacking respect because (not fitting, unpresentable, , 79.16). ...
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1933. epieikes -- seemly, equitable, yielding
... 1933 (an adjective, derived from 1909 , ", fitting" and , "equitable, fair"; also
see the ... upon") -- and hence, is that appropriately fulfills the (not just the ...
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And it is not Fitting to Boast at the Casting Forth of the Demons. ...
... Life of Antony. Section 38. And it is not fitting to boast at the casting
forth of the demons? 38. And it is not fitting to boast ...
/.../athanasius/select works and letters or athanasius/life of antony section 38.htm

The Divine virtue in the view of the Same Manich??us Corporeal and ...
... The Divine Virtue in the View of the Same Manich??us Corporeal and Divisible; The
Divine Virtue Itself Matter Which Becomes Everything; This is Not Fitting. ...
/.../alexander/of the manichaeans/chapter xx the divine virtue in.htm

Whether this is a Fitting Definition of Faith: "Faith is the ...
... EIGHT ARTICLES) Whether this is a fitting definition of faith: "Faith is the substance
of things to be hoped for, the evidence of things that appear not?". ...
//christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether this is a fitting.htm

The Doctrine of Apelles Refuted, that Christ's Body was of ...
... in death. [7031] It was not fitting for Him not to be born under the pretence
[7032] that it was fitting for Him to die. But the ...
/.../tertullian/ on the flesh of christ/chapter vi the doctrine of apelles.htm

In the Work of the Redemption of Man, not Only the Mercy, but Also ...
... It is not fitting for the son to bear the iniquity of the father, and
yet to have no share in the righteousness of his brother. ...
/.../some letters of saint bernard abbot of clairvaux/chapter vi in the work.htm

That we must not Speak Foolishly and Offensively.
... In Paul's Epistle to the Ephesians: "Foolish speaking and scurrility, which are
not fitting for the occasion, let them not be even named among you." [4410]. ...
/.../cyprian/three books of testimonies against the jews/41 that we must not.htm

The Difficulty and Excellence of virginity; the Study Of
... But discrimination must be exercised with respect to these; for it is not fitting
to impart divine instruction to a nature which is careful about trifles, and ...
/.../chapter i the difficulty and excellence.htm

True Confession of Christ.
... By such works let us confess Him, [4351] and not by those that are of an opposite
kind. And it is not fitting that we should fear men, but rather God. ...
/.../keith/the epistles of clement/chapter iv true confession of christ.htm

True Confession of Christ.
... By such [3880] works let us confess Him, [3881] and not by those that are of an
opposite kind. And it is not fitting that we should fear men, but rather God. ...
/.../unknown/the second epistle of clement/chap iv true confession of christ.htm

The Condemnation which Condemns the Judges
... hear Him declare Himself Messiah. It was not fitting that He should be condemned
on any other ground. In that answer, and its reception ...
/.../expositions of holy scripture d/the condemnation which condemns the.htm

Resources
Why is life not fair? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean that love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6)? | GotQuestions.org

Can a person believe in some sense but not be saved? | GotQuestions.org

Not: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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