Intimacy
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Intimacy, in the biblical context, encompasses a range of relationships and interactions characterized by closeness, familiarity, and deep connection. It is a multifaceted concept that includes spiritual, emotional, and physical dimensions, each of which is addressed in Scripture.

Spiritual Intimacy with God

The Bible emphasizes the importance of spiritual intimacy with God, which is foundational to the believer's life. This relationship is depicted as a personal and profound connection with the Creator. In James 4:8, believers are encouraged to "Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you." This verse highlights the reciprocal nature of intimacy with God, where seeking Him results in a closer relationship.

The Psalms often express a deep longing for God's presence, as seen in Psalm 42:1-2: "As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul longs after You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, the living God." This imagery conveys the intense desire for communion with God, reflecting the essence of spiritual intimacy.

Emotional Intimacy in Human Relationships

Emotional intimacy is a key component of human relationships, particularly within the context of marriage and family. The Bible provides guidance on nurturing these relationships through love, understanding, and mutual respect. Ephesians 5:25 instructs husbands to "love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This sacrificial love fosters a deep emotional bond between spouses.

Proverbs 17:17 states, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." This verse underscores the importance of steadfast love and support in friendships and familial relationships, which are essential for emotional intimacy.

Physical Intimacy in Marriage

Physical intimacy is a significant aspect of the marital relationship, designed by God to be enjoyed within the covenant of marriage. Genesis 2:24 describes the union of husband and wife: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This "one flesh" relationship signifies the deep physical and emotional connection intended for marriage.

The Song of Solomon celebrates the beauty and joy of marital love, illustrating the delight and fulfillment found in physical intimacy between a husband and wife. This book serves as a poetic expression of the love and desire that characterize a healthy marital relationship.

Intimacy and Community

Beyond individual relationships, the Bible also speaks to the importance of intimacy within the community of believers. Acts 2:42-47 describes the early church as a community devoted to fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayer. This communal intimacy is marked by shared lives and mutual support, reflecting the unity and love that should characterize the body of Christ.

Hebrews 10:24-25 encourages believers to "spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another." This exhortation highlights the role of community in fostering spiritual and emotional intimacy among believers.

Barriers to Intimacy

The Bible also addresses barriers to intimacy, such as sin, selfishness, and lack of communication. Sin disrupts intimacy with God and others, as seen in Isaiah 59:2: "But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden His face from you, so that He will not hear." Repentance and forgiveness are essential for restoring intimacy, as emphasized in 1 John 1:9: "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

In human relationships, selfishness and poor communication can hinder intimacy. Philippians 2:3-4 advises, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." This attitude of humility and selflessness is crucial for fostering intimacy in relationships.

In summary, intimacy in the biblical sense is a rich and complex concept that encompasses spiritual, emotional, and physical dimensions. It is central to the believer's relationship with God, as well as to human relationships within the family and the broader community of faith.
Topical Bible Verses
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
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1 Peter 3:7-12
Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
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Galatians 5:19-21
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
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Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
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Ephesians 5:3
But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becomes saints;
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1 Timothy 1:10
For fornicators, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for enslavers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine;
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1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is without the body; but he that commits fornication sins against his own body.
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Romans 1:1-32
Paul, a servant of Jesus Christ, called to be an apostle, separated to the gospel of God,
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1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you should abstain from fornication:
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Greek
1097. ginosko -- to come to know, recognize, perceive
... experientially know") is used for example in Lk 1:34, "And Mary [a virgin] said
to the angel, 'How will this be since I do not (1097 = sexual intimacy) a man ...
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2065. erotao -- to ask, question
... 2065 ("to ask on , intimacy") requests from a "preferred position" (E. Abbot, ,
467,8). Such requesting receives because of the special relationship involved. ...
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Strong's Hebrew
5475. sod -- council, counsel
... From yacad; a session, ie Company of persons (in close deliberation); by implication,
intimacy, consultation, a secret -- assembly, consel, inward, secret ...
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Christ's Friendship: Its Intimacy
... CHRIST'S FRIENDSHIP: ITS INTIMACY. No Longer ... know. What is it that gives
a Christian access to this holy intimacy with Jesus? That ...
/.../christs friendship its intimacy.htm

The Intimacy of Human Hearts in Christ
... CHAPTER II THE INTIMACY OF HUMAN HEARTS IN CHRIST. PHILIPPIANS i.1-11 The
Apostle and his converts one"The possible isolation of ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/moule/philippian studies/chapter ii the intimacy of.htm

Then Midas, King of Pessinus, Wishing to Withdraw the Youth from ...
... Book V. 7 Then Midas, king of Pessinus, wishing to withdraw the youth from
so disgraceful an intimacy? Then Midas, king of Pessinus ...
/.../the seven books of arnobius against the heathen/7 then midas king of.htm

The Council of Nic??a.
... intimate relations with the Emperor. How and when his intimacy with the latter
grew up we do not know. As already remarked, he seems ...
//christianbookshelf.org/pamphilius/church history/section 6 the council of.htm

Life and Character of John
... [565] This relationship, together with the enthusiasm of youth and the fervor of
his emotional nature, formed the basis of his intimacy with the Lord. ...
/.../history of the christian church volume i/section 41 life and character.htm

The vicariousness of Prayer
... We have to handle a gospel that is a new rebuke to us every step we gain
in intimacy with it. There is no real intimacy with the ...
/.../forsyth/the soul of prayer/chapter vi the vicariousness of.htm

The Preacher as a Man.
... would have taught us some of the most important truths which we require to learn;
because these influences were, first, his long and close intimacy with Christ ...
/.../stalker/the preacher and his models/lecture vi the preacher as.htm

C. The Third Period. Chs. 6:12 to 8:56
... where the names of these twelve apostles are found, they are arranged in three
invariable groups, possibly in accordance with their intimacy with Jesus and ...
/.../erdman/the gospel of luke an exposition/c the third period chs.htm

To My Christian Brethren in the United States of America.
... anew to take this Divine Life to itself through its own study of it, by means of
science, animated by the Holy Spirit; to gain a closer living intimacy with it ...
/.../to my christian brethren in.htm

Letter Xlv. To Asella.
... After leaving Rome for the East, Jerome writes to Asella to refute the calumnies
by which he had been assailed, especially as regards his intimacy with Paula ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter xlv to asella.htm

Resources
How can married Christians avoid emotional affairs? | GotQuestions.org

How can I experience true intimacy with God? | GotQuestions.org

Is it right for a Christian to date or marry a non-Christian? | GotQuestions.org

Intimate: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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