2 Chronicles 10:10
The young men who had grown up with him replied, "This is how you should answer these people who said to you, 'Your father made our yoke heavy, but you should make it lighter.' This is what you should tell them: 'My little finger is thicker than my father's waist!
The young men who had grown up with him
This phrase refers to the peers of Rehoboam, Solomon's son, who ascended to the throne. The Hebrew word for "young men" is "נַעַר" (na'ar), which can denote youthfulness and inexperience. These were not seasoned advisors but rather contemporaries of Rehoboam, likely sharing his youthful perspective and lack of wisdom. Historically, this highlights the importance of seeking counsel from those with experience and wisdom, as opposed to relying solely on peers who may lack the necessary insight.

replied
The act of replying here is significant as it indicates the influence these young men had on Rehoboam. The Hebrew root "עָנָה" (anah) means to answer or respond, suggesting a dialogue where Rehoboam sought their advice. This reflects a pivotal moment where the king's decision-making process is influenced by those around him, emphasizing the biblical principle of seeking godly counsel.

This is how you should answer the people
The directive given by the young men is prescriptive, indicating a specific course of action. The Hebrew word "אָמַר" (amar) means to say or speak, and it underscores the authority they assumed in advising the king. This phrase sets the stage for the unfolding narrative, where the advice given leads to significant consequences for the kingdom.

who say to you
This phrase introduces the voice of the people, representing the collective concerns of the Israelites. The Hebrew "אָמַר" (amar) is again used, highlighting the dialogue between the king and his subjects. It reflects the democratic element within the theocratic society of Israel, where the king is expected to listen to the grievances of the people.

‘Your father made our yoke heavy, but you, make it lighter for us.’
This statement encapsulates the people's plea for relief from the burdensome policies of Solomon. The "yoke" (עֹל, ol) symbolizes oppression and heavy labor, drawing from agricultural imagery where a yoke is placed on oxen. The historical context here is Solomon's extensive building projects and the heavy taxation and labor demands placed on the people. The request for a lighter yoke is a call for mercy and justice, principles deeply rooted in the Mosaic Law.

This is what you should tell them
The phrase indicates a direct instruction, emphasizing the authority the young men assumed in guiding Rehoboam's response. The Hebrew "דָּבַר" (dabar) means to speak or declare, suggesting a formal proclamation. This sets the tone for the king's response, which is pivotal in the narrative.

‘My little finger is thicker than my father’s waist.’
This metaphorical statement is a boastful declaration of strength and authority. The imagery of the "little finger" (קָטָן, qatan) being thicker than the "waist" (מָתְנַיִם, mothnayim) of Solomon is hyperbolic, intended to convey Rehoboam's intent to be even more demanding than his father. This reflects a failure to understand servant leadership, a key biblical principle where leaders are called to serve rather than dominate. The historical consequence of this statement is the division of the kingdom, illustrating the dangers of pride and harshness in leadership.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Rehoboam
The son of Solomon and the king of Israel at this time. He is faced with a decision on how to respond to the people's request for lighter burdens.

2. The Young Men
Rehoboam's peers who grew up with him. They provide counsel that is harsh and unwise, reflecting a lack of experience and understanding of leadership.

3. The People of Israel
They approach Rehoboam seeking relief from the heavy burdens imposed by Solomon, Rehoboam's father.

4. Shechem
The place where Rehoboam went to be made king, and where this pivotal event takes place.

5. Jeroboam
Although not directly mentioned in this verse, he is a significant figure in the surrounding account, representing the opposition and eventual division of the kingdom.
Teaching Points
The Importance of Wise Counsel
Rehoboam's choice to listen to his peers rather than the elders demonstrates the consequences of ignoring wise and experienced counsel. In our lives, we should seek advice from those who are spiritually mature and experienced.

Leadership and Servanthood
True leadership involves serving others and considering their needs. Rehoboam's failure to lighten the people's burdens shows a lack of servant leadership, which is a model Christ exemplified.

The Consequences of Pride
The advice given to Rehoboam reflects arrogance and pride. Pride can lead to division and conflict, as seen in the eventual split of the kingdom.

Generational Wisdom
The contrast between the advice of the elders and the young men highlights the value of generational wisdom. We should respect and consider the insights of those who have gone before us.
Bible Study Questions
1. What can we learn from Rehoboam's decision-making process about the importance of seeking wise counsel in our own lives?

2. How does the response of Rehoboam's peers reflect the dangers of pride and arrogance in leadership?

3. In what ways can we apply the principle of servant leadership in our daily interactions and responsibilities?

4. How does the division of the kingdom serve as a warning about the consequences of ignoring godly wisdom?

5. Reflect on a time when you faced a decision and had to choose between different sources of advice. How did you determine which counsel to follow, and what was the outcome?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Kings 12
This chapter provides a parallel account of Rehoboam's decision and the resulting division of the kingdom, offering additional context and details.

Proverbs 15:1
This verse highlights the importance of gentle answers and contrasts with the harsh response advised by Rehoboam's peers.

James 1:5
Encourages seeking wisdom from God, contrasting with Rehoboam's reliance on the advice of his peers.
A Political Crisis and a Fatal PolicyW. Bishop.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
A Wise Prince Will Avoid Overtaxing His People2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Advice2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Moderation in PrincesJ. Trapp.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Pampered in Youth, Ruined in PrimeJ. T. Davidson.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Paroxysms in HistoryScientific Illustrations2 Chronicles 10:1-19
RehoboamJ. Parker, D. D.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Taking Counsel of the YoungJ. Trapp.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Experience of Old MenGeorge Dawson.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Folly of Self-WillH. H. Jessup.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Foolish Ruler and the Revolting TribesJ. Wolfendale.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Mystery of Divine WorkingJ. Wolfendale.2 Chronicles 10:1-19
Two Methods of Treating MenPulpit Analyst2 Chronicles 10:1-19
The Loss of a KingdomT. Whitelaw 2 Chronicles 10:3-19
The Legacy of Brilliance, EtcW. Clarkson 2 Chronicles 10:4-14
People
Abijah, Adoniram, Ahijah, David, Hadoram, Israelites, Jeroboam, Jesse, Nebat, Rehoboam, Solomon
Places
Egypt, Jerusalem, Shechem
Topics
Body, Father's, Finger, Generation, Grew, Grown, Heavy, Lads, Less, Lighten, Lighter, Loins, Replied, Saying, Somewhat, Spake, Speak, Spoke, Spoken, Thicker, Thus, Waist, Yoke
Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Chronicles 10:10

     5152   fingers

2 Chronicles 10:1-17

     7233   Israel, northern kingdom

2 Chronicles 10:1-19

     7236   Israel, united kingdom

2 Chronicles 10:8-11

     5746   youth
     5887   inexperience

2 Chronicles 10:9-11

     4696   yoke

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Chronicles
The comparative indifference with which Chronicles is regarded in modern times by all but professional scholars seems to have been shared by the ancient Jewish church. Though written by the same hand as wrote Ezra-Nehemiah, and forming, together with these books, a continuous history of Judah, it is placed after them in the Hebrew Bible, of which it forms the concluding book; and this no doubt points to the fact that it attained canonical distinction later than they. Nor is this unnatural. The book
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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