Why infertility/orphans if kids are God's gift?
(Psalm 127:3) How do we explain infertility and countless orphans if children are solely presented as a “heritage” or gift from God?

I. Understanding the Scriptural Context

Psalm 127:3 states, “Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb is a reward.” Taken at face value, this verse underscores the immense value Scripture places on children. Yet the realities of infertility and the existence of countless orphans present an apparent tension with the idea that children are solely and inevitably given to every couple as a direct inheritance from God.

Scripture never denies that we inhabit a world impacted by suffering, trials, and brokenness. Throughout both the Old and New Testaments, individuals confronted barrenness, loss, and the need for compassion toward the fatherless. This section begins by showing that the biblical portrayal of children as a “heritage” or “gift” does not conflict with, but rather deepens our awareness of, the difficulties faced by those who cannot have children and those whose children have lost their parents.


II. The Effects of a Fallen World

The Bible consistently teaches that humanity lives under the impact of sin and the resultant brokenness of the world (Genesis 3:17–19; Romans 8:20–22). This brokenness extends to every dimension of life, including physical health and social welfare. Infertility can be one outcome of living in such a world, and orphans can be a direct result of tragic events (war, disease, abandonment).

1. Physical Consequences of the Fall: Genesis 3 describes the onset of pain and difficulty in human life, including childbearing pains (Genesis 3:16). It follows logically that certain individuals would contend with infertility or reproductive challenges. These realities, far from nullifying God's promise to bless families, highlight the pervasive need for divine grace and intervention.

2. Longevity of Hardship in History: Ancient texts, including historical records outside the Bible, often mention high rates of infant mortality and maternal challenges, confirming that the issue of orphaned children has been globally present. Archaeological studies of ancient settlements in the Levant region reveal evidence of communal care for children left without parents. Such discoveries corroborate biblical injunctions to care for the fatherless (Deuteronomy 24:17–21).


III. Biblical Examples of Barrenness and God’s Sovereignty

Numerous instances in Scripture demonstrate that believing couples who earnestly desired children sometimes endured years or even decades of childlessness. These accounts explicitly uphold God’s ability to intervene at the right time while underscoring that He governs human fertility according to His purposes:

1. Sarah (Genesis 11:30; 21:1–7): She endured long-term barrenness before bearing Isaac in her old age, illustrating that God’s promises often exceed human expectation.

2. Hannah (1 Samuel 1:1–20): In deep anguish, she prayed for a child, and eventually gave birth to Samuel, who became a significant prophet.

3. Elizabeth (Luke 1:5–24): Despite her advanced age, she bore John the Baptist, highlighting God’s initiative in His redemptive timeline.

These accounts emphasize that while children are a heritage from the Lord, He may withhold or grant them in ways that fulfill His broader, benevolent plan. Barrenness does not signal abandonment by God, nor does fertility always denote His special favor in an absolute sense. Rather, the sovereign planning of God weaves each life event into His eternal design.


IV. The Call to Care for Orphans

Far from ignoring or glossing over the existence of children without parents, Scripture provides explicit commands to protect and care for them:

1. Command to Defend the Fatherless: “Do not deprive the foreigner or the fatherless of justice” (Deuteronomy 24:17). The Mosaic Law clearly mandated social compassion.

2. God as Father to the Fatherless: “A father of the fatherless and a defender of widows is God in His holy habitation.” (Psalm 68:5). This passage revels in God’s character as one who stands in special relationship with the orphan.

3. James’s Encouragement: “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and undefiled is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress…” (James 1:27).

The existence of countless orphans doesn’t undermine God’s view of children as a blessing. Rather, it mobilizes believers and all people of goodwill to exhibit the same compassion God displays. Historical records in Christian communities attest to early Christians rescuing and raising orphans in the Roman Empire, acting out their conviction that children—regardless of their biological parentage—are precious to God.


V. Adoption and Spiritual Heritage

Adoption, both literal and spiritual, is a core biblical principle that resonates powerfully with the theme of children as heritage:

1. Biblical Precedent of Adoption: Examples include Moses being raised by Pharaoh’s daughter (Exodus 2:5–10) and Esther’s adoption by her cousin Mordecai (Esther 2:7). These stories highlight how God’s hand can work through unconventional family arrangements.

2. Believers’ Adoption into God’s Family: The New Testament employs adoption terminology to describe how those who place their trust in Christ become children of God (Ephesians 1:5; Romans 8:15). Holistically, this underscores that heritage from God transcends mere physical lineage.

Adoption reflections in modern Christian tradition continue the biblical pattern of providing a home to those orphaned or left without families. Across multiple centuries, church archives record charitable works, children’s homes, and family-based ministries established for orphans, demonstrating consistent obedience to scriptural teachings.


VI. God’s Good Plans Despite Personal Trials

The question of infertility or the plight of orphans sparks deeper queries about divine goodness and omnipotence. While children are declared a blessing, not every couple experiences parenthood directly:

1. Trust in God’s Greater Purposes: Romans 8:28 affirms, “And we know that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him, who are called according to His purpose.” Those facing childlessness may find comfort in God’s ability to use all circumstances for good, even when the immediate outcome is not as they hoped.

2. A Broader Conception of Legacy: Many who do not have biological children invest in future generations through mentorship, discipleship, teaching, or humanitarian efforts. Historical anecdotes, from monastic communities caring for children in medieval times to mission hospitals in modern contexts, remind us that one can be a parent figure in many vital ways.


VII. Archaeological and Manuscript Evidence for Scripture’s Reliability

Biblical teaching on family, childbearing, and caring for orphans is supported by a stable textual tradition that has come down with remarkable consistency:

1. Old Testament Scrolls: The Dead Sea Scrolls, discovered at Qumran, include segments of the Psalms, Deuteronomy, and other books containing instructions on caring for orphans (Deuteronomy 24) and declarations of children as blessings. Their alignment with the traditional Hebrew text used in our modern Bibles confirms the deep historical roots of these themes.

2. New Testament Manuscripts: Thousands of Greek manuscripts underpin the reliability of the instructions on caring for widows and orphans found in James 1:27. Scholars note that the textual variation between these numerous copies is minimal, demonstrating the faithful transmission of such ethical imperatives.

Further archaeological studies in places such as Israel’s Shephelah region and the city of David in Jerusalem reveal family-centric layouts of ancient homes and public structures that align with biblical ideals of community responsibility toward vulnerable children. This supports the historical authenticity of the Bible’s call to care for the fatherless.


VIII. Conclusion: Integrating Hope, Action, and Faith

Psalm 127:3 affirms that children are a heritage and a reward—a testimony to the goodness and generosity of God. Yet infertility and the widespread presence of orphans remind us that this broken world is marked by hardship. Scripture, however, does not leave believers or the community at large without guidance. It calls for:

• Compassionate care of orphans and the vulnerable.

• Acceptance of God’s sovereignty in granting children or withholding them for His purposes.

• Adoption (literal and spiritual) as a profound reflection of God’s heart.

• Trust in God’s plan, even when circumstances seem contradictory or incomplete.

In this tension, believers and all who seek truth can find confidence that God’s character remains unwaveringly good, the biblical witness is reliable—and that the ultimate fulfillment of hope is found in Him, who at just the right time can bring about life, both physical and spiritual, in accordance with His perfect wisdom.

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