Unforgiving
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The concept of being unforgiving is addressed throughout the Bible, often highlighting the spiritual and relational consequences of harboring an unforgiving spirit. In Scripture, forgiveness is a central theme, and the refusal to forgive is portrayed as contrary to the character and commands of God.

Biblical Definition and Context

Unforgiving refers to the unwillingness to pardon offenses, hold onto grudges, or release resentment against others. This attitude is often contrasted with the biblical mandate to forgive as God forgives. The Bible emphasizes that forgiveness is not merely a suggestion but a command for those who follow Christ.

Key Biblical Passages

1. Matthew 6:14-15 : "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive yours." This passage underscores the reciprocal nature of forgiveness in the Christian life. The refusal to forgive others can hinder one's own reception of God's forgiveness.

2. Matthew 18:21-22 : "Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, 'Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?' Jesus answered, 'I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times.'" Here, Jesus teaches that forgiveness should be limitless, reflecting the boundless grace of God.

3. Ephesians 4:31-32 : "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you." The Apostle Paul exhorts believers to abandon unforgiving attitudes and instead embrace kindness and forgiveness, modeling the forgiveness they have received through Christ.

Theological Implications

Theologically, an unforgiving heart is seen as incompatible with the new life in Christ. Forgiveness is a reflection of God's own nature and His redemptive work through Jesus. Christians are called to emulate God's forgiveness as a testimony to His grace and mercy.

Parables and Teachings

The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18:23-35) vividly illustrates the consequences of an unforgiving spirit. In this parable, a servant who is forgiven a great debt by his master refuses to forgive a fellow servant a much smaller debt. The master, upon learning of this, revokes his forgiveness and punishes the unforgiving servant. This account serves as a warning that those who do not forgive will face divine judgment.

Practical Application

In practical terms, being unforgiving can lead to spiritual stagnation, broken relationships, and a lack of peace. Christians are encouraged to seek reconciliation and extend forgiveness as a means of living out their faith authentically. The act of forgiving is not only a release for the offender but also liberates the one who forgives from the bondage of bitterness and resentment.

Conclusion

While the Bible does not shy away from acknowledging the difficulty of forgiveness, it consistently calls believers to rise above their natural inclinations and reflect the forgiving nature of God. Through the power of the Holy Spirit, Christians are equipped to overcome unforgiveness and live in harmony with others, demonstrating the transformative power of the Gospel.
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Forgiven and Unforgiving
... XVIII to XXVIII FORGIVEN AND UNFORGIVING. 'Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto
thee, Until seven times; but, Until seventy times seven.' "Matthew 18:22. ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture b/forgiven and unforgiving.htm

No Forgiveness to the Unforgiving.
... Book XIV. 13. No Forgiveness to the Unforgiving. Only, I have said these
things with the view of referring his return when he comes ...
/.../origen/origens commentary on the gospel of matthew/13 no forgiveness to the.htm

Fourth Day. Forgiveness of Injuries.
... "Consider thyself, lest thou also be tempted." When disposed at any time to cherish
an unforgiving spirit towards a brother, think, if thy God had retained His ...
/.../macduff/the mind of jesus/fourth day forgiveness of injuries.htm

The Forgiveness of Sins.
... A man with an unforgiving spirit, who nourishes hatred and revenge against a neighbour,
is already possessed by a devil, and his future must be spent in the ...
/.../the life of duty a years plain sermons v 2/sermon lvii the forgiveness of.htm

The Shortest Way to God.
... Why the Results Fail The Shortest Way to God. A third thing spoken of as hindering
prayer is an unforgiving spirit. ... That word unforgiving! ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/gordon/quiet talks on prayer/the shortest way to god.htm

Sin and Forgiveness Between Brethren.
... The lord does not call the servant wicked because he had contracted a debt which
he could not pay, but because of the merciless, unforgiving spirit which he ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/lxxiv sin and forgiveness between.htm

The Lord's Prayer
... The other servants, seeing how unforgiving this man was who had himself been forgiven,
went and told all to their master, and he, being angry at such conduct ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kinkead/baltimore catechism no 4/the lords prayer.htm

It Shall not be Forgiven.
... All in all? If God appeared to us, how could he say, "I forgive you," while
we remained unforgiving to our neighbour? Suppose it ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/macdonald/unspoken sermons/it shall not be forgiven.htm

Expositions of Holy Scripture
... THE LOST SHEEP AND THE SEEKING SHEPHERD. PERSISTENCE OF THWARTED LOVE. FORGIVEN
AND UNFORGIVING. THE REQUIREMENTS OF THE KING. NEAREST TO CHRIST. ...
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God's Love for Man
... evidences have been given, the enemy of good blinded the minds of men, so that they
looked upon God with fear; they thought of Him as severe and unforgiving. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/white/steps to christ/chapter 1 gods love for.htm

Thesaurus
Unforgiving (2 Occurrences)
...Unforgiving (2 Occurrences). Romans 1:31 without understanding, covenant breakers,
without natural affection, unforgiving, unmerciful; (WEB). ...
/u/unforgiving.htm - 6k

Unloving (2 Occurrences)
... Unloving (2 Occurrences). Romans 1:31 without understanding, covenant breakers,
without natural affection, unforgiving, unmerciful; (See NAS). ...
/u/unloving.htm - 6k

Forgiveness (124 Occurrences)
... is beyond forgiveness. To Him an unforgiving spirit is one of the most
heinous of sins (Bruce, Parabolic Teaching, 376). This is ...
/f/forgiveness.htm - 68k

Affection (30 Occurrences)
... (WEB). Romans 1:31 without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection,
unforgiving, unmerciful; (WEB KJV WEY ASV DBY WBS YLT). ...
/a/affection.htm - 20k

Unforbidden (1 Occurrence)

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Unmerciful (1 Occurrence)
... Romans 1:31 without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection,
unforgiving, unmerciful; (WEB KJV ASV DBY WBS YLT NAS). ...
/u/unmerciful.htm - 6k

Untrustworthy (1 Occurrence)
... Untrustworthy (1 Occurrence). Romans 1:31 without understanding, covenant breakers,
without natural affection, unforgiving, unmerciful; (See NAS). ...
/u/untrustworthy.htm - 6k

Unforgotten (1 Occurrence)

/u/unforgotten.htm - 6k

Opposed (23 Occurrences)
... 2 Timothy 3:3 destitute of natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers. They will
have no self-control, but will be brutal, opposed to goodness, (WEY). ...
/o/opposed.htm - 13k

Lovers (57 Occurrences)
... 2 Timothy 3:3 without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without
self-control, fierce, no lovers of good, (WEB ASV YLT NIV). ...
/l/lovers.htm - 24k

Resources
What is the meaning of the Parable of the Unforgiving / Unmerciful Servant? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about unforgiveness? | GotQuestions.org

Dealing with mean people-what does the Bible say? | GotQuestions.org

Unforgiving: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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Unforgiving (2 Occurrences)

Romans 1:31
without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, unforgiving, unmerciful;
(WEB)

2 Timothy 3:3
without natural affection, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, fierce, no lovers of good,
(WEB WEY NIV)

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