Friends: False Friends: David Was False to Joab
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In the narrative of King David's reign, the relationship between David and Joab, his military commander, is complex and multifaceted. Joab, the son of Zeruiah, was a loyal and effective leader of David's army, playing a crucial role in many of David's military victories. However, the relationship between David and Joab was not without tension and betrayal, culminating in David's actions that could be perceived as false to Joab.

Joab's Loyalty and Service

Joab's loyalty to David is evident throughout the biblical narrative. He was instrumental in securing David's throne, notably in the battle against the forces of Abner, the commander of Saul's army (2 Samuel 2:12-32). Joab also played a key role in the capture of Jerusalem (1 Chronicles 11:6) and the defeat of the Ammonites and Syrians (2 Samuel 10:6-19). Despite his loyalty, Joab was a man of violence and ambition, often taking matters into his own hands, as seen in his murder of Abner (2 Samuel 3:27) and Amasa (2 Samuel 20:10).

David's Displeasure with Joab

David's relationship with Joab was strained by Joab's actions, which often conflicted with David's wishes. For instance, Joab disobeyed David's command to spare Absalom, David's son, during Absalom's rebellion. Instead, Joab killed Absalom, an act that deeply grieved David (2 Samuel 18:14-33). Despite Joab's effectiveness as a military leader, his ruthless actions and disregard for David's orders created a rift between them.

David's Betrayal of Joab

The culmination of David's betrayal of Joab is found in the events surrounding the transition of power to Solomon. As David's life drew to a close, he instructed Solomon to deal with Joab for his past actions, particularly the murders of Abner and Amasa. In 1 Kings 2:5-6, David tells Solomon, "You know what Joab the son of Zeruiah did to me, what he did to the two commanders of the armies of Israel, to Abner the son of Ner and to Amasa the son of Jether, whom he killed, shedding their blood in peacetime as if in battle. Act according to your wisdom, and do not let his gray head go down to Sheol in peace."

David's instructions to Solomon can be seen as a betrayal of Joab, who had served him faithfully for many years. Despite Joab's loyalty and service, David chose to ensure that Joab would face retribution for his past actions, effectively sealing Joab's fate. Solomon followed his father's instructions, and Joab was executed at the altar, where he had sought refuge (1 Kings 2:28-34).

Theological Implications

From a theological perspective, the relationship between David and Joab highlights the complexities of human relationships and the consequences of sin. Joab's actions, though often in service to David, were marked by violence and a disregard for God's law. David's decision to have Joab executed through Solomon's hand reflects the biblical principle that justice must be served, even when it involves those who have been close allies.

The narrative serves as a reminder of the importance of integrity and obedience to God's commands, as well as the potential for betrayal even among those who are considered friends. The account of David and Joab underscores the need for discernment and righteousness in leadership, as well as the ultimate accountability to God for one's actions.
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1 Kings 2:5,6
Moreover you know also what Joab the son of Zeruiah did to me, and what he did to the two captains of the hosts of Israel, to Abner the son of Ner, and to Amasa the son of Jether, whom he slew, and shed the blood of war in peace, and put the blood of war on his girdle that was about his loins, and in his shoes that were on his feet.
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'More than Conquerors through Him'
... it will surprise him when he is lulled in false security ... David took the bull by the
horns, and did not wait ... of evil, is not the separation of the friends of good ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture f/more than conquerors through him.htm

Adonijah
... stabbed to the heart by so-called friends, even Brutus ... The false must be displaced
by the true"the world ... the prophet, hurried in to tell David of Adonijah's ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/milligan/men of the bible some lesser-known/adonijah.htm

The Way of Life and the Way of Death.
... be commended." [3385] "Thou shalt not bear false witness;" for ... be meek, as were Moses
and David, [3408] since ... Moses did when he persuaded them to be friends. ...
/.../various/constitutions of the holy apostles/sec i on the two ways.htm

How Amon Reigned Instead of Manasseh; and after Amon Reigned ...
... for certain [other] of his most particular friends, and sent ... and he burnt the bones
of the false prophets upon ... a certain man of the house of David, Josiah by ...
/.../josephus/the antiquities of the jews/chapter 4 how amon reigned.htm

The Horns of the Altar
... them with the sword, my father David not knowing ... of heaven"; which statement is
altogether false; and then it ... DEAR FRIENDS AND BRETHREN,"As I am expected to ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 31 1885/the horns of the altar.htm

Scriptures Showing the Sin and Danger of Joining with Wicked and ...
... then, (ver 21.) the calumniator and false accuser, who ... have forsaken their old faithful
friends, when they ... discountenance, and oppose them, as David, "I hate ...
/.../binning/the works of the rev hugh binning/section v scriptures showing the.htm

A Little Sanctuary
... that I dwell in the tents of Kedar!" David knew what ... On the festivals of their false
gods they demanded that ... Now, dear friends, God says, "I will be to them as ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 34 1888/a little sanctuary.htm

Prov. 22:06 the Duties of Parents
... "Ye are My friends if ye ... and exaggeration are all halfway houses towards what is
false, and ought ... Joab went out to war against Ammon, "but David tarried still ...
/.../the upper room being a few truths for the times/chapter xvi prov 22 6 the.htm

On the Great Athanasius, Bishop of Alexandria.
... Accordingly the great David was a man of at once the ... said to one of his comrades
and friends"as often ... it was rendered meaningless by their false doctrine as ...
/.../cyril/lectures of s cyril of jerusalem/oration xxi on the great.htm

Christ a Complete Saviour:
... Take heed of a false faith; none is true but that ... kindled against thee, and against
thy two friends; for ye ... 'I opened my mouth, and panted,' said David, 'for I ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/christ a complete saviour .htm

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