Background and Family:
Abishai was the son of Zeruiah, David's sister, making him David's nephew. He was the brother of Joab and Asahel, and together, these three brothers were prominent figures in King David's military. Abishai is often noted for his bravery and loyalty to David throughout the biblical narrative.

Military Exploits:
Abishai was a valiant warrior and played a significant role in several of David's military campaigns. He was one of David's mighty men and is frequently mentioned alongside his brother Joab, who was the commander of David's army.

Pursuit of Abner:
The incident involving Abishai's pursuit and killing of Abner is a significant event in the power struggle between the house of Saul and the house of David. Abner, the commander of Saul's army, had initially supported Ish-bosheth, Saul's son, as king over Israel. However, after a falling out with Ish-bosheth, Abner sought to transfer his allegiance to David, promising to bring all Israel under David's rule.

The tension between Abner and the sons of Zeruiah, particularly Joab and Abishai, was palpable. This animosity was exacerbated by the death of Asahel, Abishai's brother, who was killed by Abner during a battle at Gibeon. Asahel had pursued Abner relentlessly, and despite Abner's warnings, he refused to turn aside, leading to his death at Abner's hand (2 Samuel 2:18-23).

The Killing of Abner:
The killing of Abner by Joab and Abishai is recorded in 2 Samuel 3. After Abner had made peace with David and was on his way back to rally Israel to David's side, Joab, with Abishai's involvement, deceitfully called Abner back to Hebron. There, Joab took Abner aside into the gateway, as if to speak with him privately, and struck him in the stomach, killing him. This act was in revenge for the death of their brother Asahel.

The Bible records David's reaction to Abner's death, emphasizing his innocence in the matter and his lamentation over Abner. David declared, "I and my kingdom are forever guiltless before the LORD concerning the blood of Abner son of Ner. May it fall upon the head of Joab and upon all his father’s house" (2 Samuel 3:28-29). David's public mourning and his curse upon Joab's house underscored the gravity of the act and his desire to distance himself from the bloodshed.

Legacy:
Abishai's role in the death of Abner is a testament to the complex and often violent nature of the power struggles during David's rise to kingship. While Abishai was a loyal supporter of David, his actions, alongside Joab, reflect the personal vendettas and the harsh realities of leadership and warfare in ancient Israel. Despite this, Abishai remained a trusted and formidable warrior in David's service, participating in various military campaigns and demonstrating unwavering loyalty to his king.2 Samuel 2:24
Joab also and Abishai pursued after Abner: and the sun went down when they were come to the hill of Ammah, that lies before Giah by the way of the wilderness of Gibeon.
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2 Samuel 3:30
So Joab, and Abishai his brother slew Abner, because he had slain their brother Asahel at Gibeon in the battle.
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