No Sex Before Marriage
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The concept of abstaining from sexual relations before marriage is deeply rooted in biblical teachings and is a significant aspect of Christian ethics and morality. This principle is often associated with the broader biblical theme of sexual purity and holiness, which is emphasized throughout Scripture.

Biblical Foundations

1. Creation and Marriage: The foundation for sexual ethics in the Bible begins with the creation narrative. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This passage underscores the sanctity of the marital union as the appropriate context for sexual relations.

2. Commandments and Laws: The Ten Commandments include directives that uphold sexual purity. Exodus 20:14 states, "You shall not commit adultery," which, by extension, includes the prohibition of premarital sexual relations. The Levitical laws further elaborate on sexual conduct, emphasizing holiness and separation from practices deemed impure (Leviticus 18).

3. New Testament Teachings: The New Testament reinforces the call to sexual purity. In 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 , Paul writes, "Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a man can commit is outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God with your body." This passage highlights the spiritual significance of maintaining sexual purity as a form of honoring God.

4. The Example of Jesus and the Apostles: Jesus and the apostles consistently taught about the importance of purity and self-control. In Matthew 5:27-28 , Jesus expands on the commandment against adultery, saying, "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." This teaching emphasizes the importance of purity in thought as well as in action.

Theological Implications

1. Holiness and Sanctification: The call to abstain from premarital sex is part of the broader biblical call to holiness. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 states, "For it is God’s will that you should be holy: You must abstain from sexual immorality; each of you must know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in lustful passion like the Gentiles who do not know God." This passage links sexual purity with the process of sanctification, a key aspect of Christian life.

2. Covenantal Relationship: Marriage is viewed as a covenantal relationship that mirrors the relationship between Christ and the Church. Ephesians 5:31-32 draws this parallel: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church." The exclusivity and commitment of marriage are seen as reflective of the divine covenant.

3. Community and Witness: Sexual purity is also seen as a testimony to the surrounding culture. In a world where sexual norms often differ from biblical teachings, Christians are called to be distinct. Philippians 2:15 encourages believers to be "blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and perverse generation, in which you shine as lights in the world."

Practical Considerations

1. Education and Discipleship: Churches often emphasize the importance of teaching young people about the biblical view of sexuality. This includes fostering environments where discussions about purity, self-control, and the value of marriage are encouraged.

2. Support and Accountability: Many Christian communities provide support systems, such as accountability groups and mentorship programs, to help individuals maintain their commitment to sexual purity.

3. Cultural Engagement: Engaging with contemporary cultural narratives about sexuality, Christians are encouraged to articulate a biblical perspective with grace and truth, offering a countercultural witness that upholds the sanctity of marriage and the value of waiting until marriage for sexual intimacy.
Topical Bible Verses
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
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1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man does is without the body; but he that commits fornication sins against his own body.
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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1 Timothy ii. 15-Nov
... because she transgressed, the rest of the sex are also ... he reckons this one, for it
is no light praise ... He that is chaste before marriage, much more will he be ...
/.../homily ix 1 timothy ii.htm

The Simple Explanation of My Own Opinion in Reference to the ...
... staggered, if I had not, after what goes before, said "We ... I do not take away the
difference of sex; I only ... be neither bond nor free, there can be no male and ...
/.../29 the simple explanation of.htm

Article xxiii (xi): of the Marriage of Priests.
... remains, because the natural desire of sex for sex is an ... so well established that
they can in no way be ... as an orator is not more righteous before God because ...
/.../the apology of the augsburg confession/part 28 article xxiii xi .htm

Whether the Bodies of Women Shall Retain their Own Sex in the ...
... For there shall be no lust, which is now the cause of ... For before they sinned, the
man and the woman were naked ... And the sex of woman is not a vice, but nature. ...
/.../augustine/city of god/chapter 17 whether the bodies of.htm

Concupiscence Alone, in Marriage, is not of God.
... qualities, inasmuch as the difference of sex belongs to ... 2227] Now, the devil found
no carnal concupiscence ... which glories in all these before-mentioned goods. ...
/.../augustine/anti-pelagian writings/chapter 14 v concupiscence alone in.htm

Marriage of the Blessed virgin to Joseph
... which several steps led down was near by, and there was a small square court before
the house ... No one shall be barren among you of either sex.' This explains ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/vii marriage of the blessed.htm

The Evolution of a Father
... Long before Evolution showed its scientific interest in this ... The idea that the existence
of sex accounts for ... Love then is no necessary ingredient of the sex ...
/.../the lowell lectures on the ascent of man/chapter ix the evolution of.htm

Letter xviii. Marriage.
... really exist in your own bosom, before you consent ... seeming to be sensible of any
difference of sex. ... No gentleman of refined and delicate feelings, will intrude ...
/.../a practical directory for young christian females/letter xviii marriage.htm

But There is a Further Fact; Forgotten Also Because we Moderns ...
... is now maintaining that there is no body ... the gibbet, that voluntary suffering was
before and independent ... which all anthropology turns, that of sex and childbirth ...
/.../chesterton/whats wrong with the world/chapter 25 but there is.htm

Answer to the Foregoing Arguments.
... dispensation, let that age which is ignorant of its sex [8899] retain ... No one is a
"virgin" from the time when she is ... [8905] Why do you denude before God [8906 ...
/.../tertullian/on prayer/chapter xxii answer to the foregoing.htm

Resources
What should I do when God says no? | GotQuestions.org

What does Revelation mean when it says, “There was no longer any sea”? | GotQuestions.org

What is the No True Scotsman fallacy? | GotQuestions.org

No: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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