Domestic Abuse
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Definition and Context:
Domestic abuse, also known as domestic violence, refers to a pattern of behavior in a relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. This abuse can be physical, emotional, psychological, or sexual. It is a grievous sin that violates the sanctity of marriage and the inherent dignity of individuals created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27).

Biblical Principles:
The Bible upholds the sanctity of marriage and the family unit, emphasizing love, respect, and mutual submission. Ephesians 5:25 instructs, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." This sacrificial love is the standard for marital relationships, leaving no room for abuse or harm.

Marriage as a Covenant:
Marriage is depicted as a covenant relationship, reflecting the covenant between Christ and the Church. Malachi 2:14-16 speaks against treachery within marriage, highlighting God's disdain for violence: "For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, and the one who covers his garment with violence, says the LORD of Hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not break faith."

Role of Authority and Submission:
While the Bible speaks of roles within marriage, it never condones abuse. Ephesians 5:22-24 discusses the concept of wives submitting to their husbands, but this is within the context of mutual love and respect. Husbands are called to love their wives as their own bodies (Ephesians 5:28-29), nurturing and cherishing them.

Protection and Justice:
Scripture consistently advocates for the protection of the vulnerable and the pursuit of justice. Psalm 82:3-4 commands, "Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; uphold the rights of the afflicted and oppressed. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked." This mandate extends to those suffering from domestic abuse, calling for intervention and support.

Church's Responsibility:
The Church is called to be a refuge for those in distress, offering support and guidance. Galatians 6:2 encourages believers to "Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." The Church must provide a safe environment for victims to seek help and healing.

Repentance and Restoration:
For the abuser, the path to restoration begins with genuine repentance and a commitment to change. 1 John 1:9 assures, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." True repentance involves acknowledging the sin, seeking forgiveness, and making amends.

Conclusion:
Domestic abuse is a grave violation of biblical principles and the sanctity of marriage. The Bible calls for love, respect, and protection within the family, and the Church must stand as a beacon of hope and healing for those affected by such sin.
Topical Bible Verses
Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
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Ephesians 6:4
And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
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1 Peter 3:7
Likewise, you husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
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Proverbs 12:10
A righteous man regards the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.
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Deuteronomy 22:6-7
If a bird's nest chance to be before you in the way in any tree, or on the ground, whether they be young ones, or eggs, and the dam sitting on the young, or on the eggs, you shall not take the dam with the young:
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1 Corinthians 7:1-40
Now concerning the things whereof you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
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Library

Branches of Church History.
... Persecution, like missions, is both foreign and domestic. Besides ... right.
Freedom is liable to abuse, and abuse may be punished. ...
/.../history of the christian church volume i/section 2 branches of church.htm

Melanchthon -- the Safety of the virtuous
... men, unfaithfulness on the part of those with whom we are closely connected, banishment,
abuse, desertion, miserable children, public and domestic strife, wars ...
/.../various/the worlds great sermons volume i/melanchthon the safety of.htm

None of those who are in the Order of Laymen May Distribute the ...
... (De Rebus Liturg., Lib. II., cap. xvij.). From this domestic communion it is easily
seen how the abuse arose which is condemned in this canon. ...
/.../schaff/the seven ecumenical councils/canon lviii none of those.htm

Marriage and Celibacy.
... First, to cases of domestic relationship""it remaineth that they that have wives
be as ... to the spirit of the world Christianity says, "Do not abuse it." A ...
/.../robertson/sermons preached at brighton/xiv marriage and celibacy.htm

Knowledge and Self-Confidence
... pleads, the opponent having, in his turn, an equal right to abuse; and they ... of causes
than he does in conversation on daily and domestic occurrences; neither ...
/.../kleiser/the training of a public speaker/knowledge and self-confidence.htm

Home-Government.
... to do as they please, and to bring them up under the influence of domestic libertinism. ...
We may neglect and abuse the home-government in two ways, either by over ...
/.../philips/the christian home/chapter xviii home-government.htm

The Accession of Darius.
... if the affairs of the country at large, and the municipal and domestic institutions
of all ... if any one of so large a number should be inclined to abuse his power ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/abbott/darius the great/chapter iv the accession of.htm

Miscellaneous.
... And since Christians count it an abuse to allegorize the first, let them also be ...
I would not judge of him by his open profession, but by his domestic behaviors ...
//christianbookshelf.org/bunyan/the riches of bunyan/xxix miscellaneous.htm

What is the Christian Home?
... from parent to child, making-up the sunshine and the loveliness of domestic life ...
We, therefore, abuse the idea of home when we divest it of the religious element ...
//christianbookshelf.org/philips/the christian home/chapter i what is the.htm

The Old Faiths and the New
... and to define the relations which Christians should assume towards the political,
religious, and domestic institutions of ... (d) The use and abuse of spiritual ...
/.../sell/bible studies in the life of paul/study viii the old faiths.htm

Resources
Questions about Family & Parenting (All) | GotQuestions.org

Marriage Hardships ' Article Index | GotQuestions.org

Who was Xerxes in the Bible? | GotQuestions.org

Domestic: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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