Christians Marrying Non Christians
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The topic of Christians marrying non-Christians is a significant subject within Christian theology and ethics, often discussed in the context of maintaining spiritual integrity and obedience to biblical teachings. The Bible provides guidance on this matter, emphasizing the importance of shared faith in marriage.

Biblical Foundations

The primary scriptural reference concerning marriage between believers and non-believers is found in 2 Corinthians 6:14-15, which states: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?" . This passage underscores the potential spiritual discord that can arise from such unions, using the metaphor of being "unequally yoked" to illustrate the challenges of differing spiritual commitments.

Additionally, 1 Corinthians 7:39 advises that a Christian widow is "free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord" . This directive highlights the expectation that believers should seek spouses who share their faith, ensuring that their marriage is grounded in a mutual commitment to Christ.

Old Testament Context

The Old Testament also provides insights into the issue of interfaith marriages. In Deuteronomy 7:3-4, the Israelites are instructed not to intermarry with the surrounding nations: "Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your children away from following Me to serve other gods" . This command was intended to prevent the Israelites from being led astray by foreign religious practices, emphasizing the importance of religious purity and devotion to God.

Practical Considerations

From a practical standpoint, marrying a non-Christian can present challenges in areas such as worship, raising children, and making ethical decisions. The potential for conflict in these areas can strain the marital relationship and hinder spiritual growth. Ephesians 5:22-33 outlines the model for Christian marriage, where both husband and wife are called to reflect Christ's relationship with the Church. This ideal is more readily achieved when both partners share a common faith.

Pastoral Guidance

Pastoral counsel often advises Christians to consider the spiritual implications of marrying a non-believer. While love and personal compatibility are important, the spiritual dimension of marriage is paramount. Church leaders may encourage believers to seek partners who will support and strengthen their faith journey, fostering a home environment centered on Christ.

Exceptions and Grace

While the biblical ideal is clear, the reality of human relationships is complex. Some Christians find themselves in marriages with non-believers, either through conversion after marriage or other circumstances. In such cases, 1 Peter 3:1-2 offers guidance: "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor" . This passage suggests that a believer's conduct can be a powerful testimony to their spouse.

Ultimately, the decision to marry a non-Christian is a deeply personal one, requiring prayerful consideration and discernment. The biblical counsel aims to guide believers toward relationships that honor God and promote spiritual unity.
Topical Bible Verses
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be you not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion has light with darkness?
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1 Corinthians 7:12-13
But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother has a wife that believes not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
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Period ii. The Post-Apostolic Age: AD 100-AD 140
... that, inasmuch as he is writing for non-Christians, he uses ... than the law required
of ordinary Christians (b, c ... sin?" "There is no sin in marrying again," said he ...
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Easter Sunday
... From all this Paul would have Christians purge themselves ... The old proverb says:
"Non patitur jocum fama, fides ... even to the extent of one marrying his stepmother ...
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The Difference Between Walking by Sight, and Walking by Faith
... And to all real Christians our Lord saith, "Because ... allowed, Nihil est in intellectu
quod non fuit prius ... When the question is concerning marrying your daughter ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 113 the difference between.htm

Disestablishment
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of Christians." They had ... had conferred the right of marrying people upon ...
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Chapter xvi.
... holy." For now the children were Christians, who were ... that if he commits adultery
by marrying her who ... not fornication (omne peccatum fornicatio non est); and ...
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The Transformation of Rome from a Pagan into a Christian City.
... apostasy to which Christian girls marrying gentiles willingly ... which were believed
by the Christians to be the ... NON NOSTRIS NOCET OFFICIIS NEC CULPA LABACRI QUOD ...
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Seances Historiques De Geneve --The National Church.
... like our own"of like passions, marrying and domestic ... the case of the Christian and
non-Christian populations to ... empire even then; that the Christians of the ...
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City of God
... of the Consulship, and of the Non-Intervention of ... Passions Which Assail the Souls
of Christians Do Not ... 34.--What is Meant by Abraham's Marrying Keturah After ...
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The City of God. Index of Subjects.
... his offering up of Isaac, [21]329; death of his wife Sarah, [22]330; what is meant
by marrying Keturah after ... Boasting, Christians ought to be free from, [202]99 ...
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Doctrinal and Moral Treatises. Index of Subjects.
... Holy, Song of, [694]438; having, a reason for not marrying again, [695 ... Christians,
nominal, described, [807]311; more numerous than Jews and Pagans united [in ...
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