2 Samuel 3:8
Abner was furious over Ish-bosheth's accusation. "Am I the head of a dog that belongs to Judah?" he asked. "All this time I have been loyal to the house of your father Saul, to his brothers, and to his friends. I have not delivered you into the hand of David, but now you accuse me of wrongdoing with this woman!
Abner was furious over Ish-bosheth’s accusation.
Abner, a powerful military leader and cousin to King Saul, was deeply offended by Ish-bosheth's accusation. This reflects the tension within the house of Saul after his death. Abner's anger indicates the fragile nature of Ish-bosheth's rule and the internal strife that plagued Saul's dynasty. The accusation likely involved a serious breach of trust or honor, which was a significant issue in ancient Near Eastern cultures.

“Am I the head of a dog that belongs to Judah?” he asked.
The phrase "head of a dog" was a derogatory term in ancient Israel, implying worthlessness or contempt. Dogs were considered unclean animals, and this metaphor suggests Abner felt deeply insulted. The mention of Judah highlights the tribal divisions and rivalries, as Judah was the tribe of David, Saul's rival. This reflects the political tension between the northern tribes loyal to Saul's house and the southern tribe of Judah, loyal to David.

“All this time I have been loyal to the house of your father Saul, to his brothers, and to his friends.
Abner emphasizes his loyalty to Saul's family, underscoring his role in maintaining the kingdom after Saul's death. His loyalty extended beyond Saul to his brothers and allies, indicating a broader network of support. This loyalty was crucial in the power dynamics of the time, as familial and tribal allegiances were central to political stability.

I have not delivered you into the hand of David,
Abner's statement reveals his power and influence, as he had the capability to shift allegiance to David but chose not to. This highlights the precarious position of Ish-bosheth, who relied heavily on Abner's support to maintain his rule. It also foreshadows the eventual transfer of power to David, as Abner's allegiance was a key factor in the political landscape.

but now you accuse me of wrongdoing with this woman!
The accusation likely involved Rizpah, Saul's concubine, which would have been seen as a claim to Saul's throne. In the ancient Near East, taking a king's concubine was a political act, symbolizing a claim to his authority. This accusation threatened Abner's honor and position, prompting his anger and eventual decision to support David. This incident reflects the complex interplay of personal relationships and political power in the biblical narrative.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Abner
The commander of Saul's army and a powerful figure in Israel. He was a cousin to Saul and played a significant role in the power dynamics following Saul's death.

2. Ish-bosheth
The son of Saul, who was made king over Israel by Abner after Saul's death. His reign was marked by weakness and reliance on Abner's strength.

3. Judah
The southern kingdom, loyal to David, who was anointed king over Judah. Abner's reference to Judah highlights the division between the northern tribes and Judah.

4. Saul's House
Refers to the family and supporters of King Saul, who were in opposition to David's rule over Judah.

5. David
The anointed king of Judah, who was in conflict with the house of Saul for the kingship over all Israel.
Teaching Points
Loyalty and Betrayal
Abner's anger highlights the tension between loyalty to a leader and personal integrity. Christians are called to be loyal to Christ above all earthly allegiances.

Conflict Resolution
The conflict between Abner and Ish-bosheth illustrates the importance of addressing misunderstandings and grievances directly and with humility.

God's Sovereignty
Despite human conflicts and power struggles, God's sovereign plan prevails. Believers can trust that God is in control, even in chaotic situations.

The Danger of Pride
Abner's pride and sense of insult led to significant political consequences. Pride can lead to destructive decisions; humility is a virtue to be cultivated.

The Role of Leadership
Ish-bosheth's reliance on Abner shows the importance of strong, godly leadership. Leaders should seek wisdom and strength from God rather than solely relying on human alliances.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Abner's reaction to Ish-bosheth's accusation reflect the challenges of maintaining loyalty in leadership? How can we apply this to our own roles in leadership or followership?

2. In what ways does the division between Judah and the house of Saul mirror divisions within the church today? How can we work towards unity?

3. How does the account of Abner and Ish-bosheth encourage us to trust in God's sovereignty amidst human conflicts?

4. What lessons can we learn from Abner's prideful response, and how can we guard against pride in our own lives?

5. How does the reliance of Ish-bosheth on Abner challenge us to consider where we place our trust and reliance? How can we ensure our trust is ultimately in God?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Samuel 15
The rejection of Saul as king by God, which sets the stage for the conflict between Saul's house and David.

2 Samuel 2
The anointing of David as king over Judah and the ensuing conflict with Ish-bosheth.

1 Kings 2
The eventual consolidation of the kingdom under Solomon, which reflects the ongoing struggle for unity in Israel.
A Long WarC. M. Fleury, A. M.2 Samuel 3:1-39
Perpetual WarJ. Irons.2 Samuel 3:1-39
Progress and Termination of the Civil WarW. G. Blaikie, M. A.2 Samuel 3:1-39
The Dissensions of the WickedB. Dale 2 Samuel 3:7-11
People
Abigail, Abishai, Abital, Abner, Absalom, Adonijah, Ahinoam, Aiah, Amnon, Asahel, Benjamin, Benjamites, Chileab, Dan, David, Eglah, Gibeon, Haggith, Ishbosheth, Ithream, Jezreel, Jezreelitess, Jizreelitess, Joab, Laish, Maacah, Maachah, Michal, Nabal, Ner, Paltiel, Phaltiel, Rizpah, Saul, Shephatiah, Talmai, Zeruiah
Places
Bahurim, Beersheba, Bethlehem, Carmel, Dan, Geshur, Gibeon, Hebron
Topics
Abner, Accuse, Angry, Belongeth, Belongs, Brethren, Brothers, Cause, Charge, Chargest, David, Delivered, Displeasing, Dog, Dog's, Exceedingly, Family, Fault, Friends, Guilt, Handed, Hands, Haven't, Iniquity, Involving, Ishbosheth, Ish-bosheth, Ish-bo'sheth, Judah, Judah's, Kindness, Loyal, Loyalty, Offense, Power, Reference, Reproachest, Saul, Shew, Showing, To-day, Wrong, Wroth, Yet
Dictionary of Bible Themes
2 Samuel 3:8

     5791   anger, human
     6115   blame
     6206   offence
     8304   loyalty

2 Samuel 3:7-11

     5714   men

Library
The King --Continued.
The years thus well begun are, in the historical books, characterized mainly by three events, namely, the bringing up of the ark to the newly won city of David, Nathan's prophecy of the perpetual dominion of his house, and his victories over the surrounding nations. These three hinges of the narrative are all abundantly illustrated in the psalms. As to the first, we have relics of the joyful ceremonial connected with it in two psalms, the fifteenth and twenty-fourth, which are singularly alike not
Alexander Maclaren—The Life of David

The King.
We have now to turn and see the sudden change of fortune which lifted the exile to a throne. The heavy cloud which had brooded so long over the doomed king broke in lightning crash on the disastrous field of Gilboa. Where is there a sadder and more solemn story of the fate of a soul which makes shipwreck "of faith and of a good conscience," than that awful page which tells how, godless, wretched, mad with despair and measureless pride, he flung himself on his bloody sword, and died a suicide's death,
Alexander Maclaren—The Life of David

Of a Private Fast.
That we may rightly perform a private fast, four things are to be observed:--First, The author; Secondly, The time and occasion; Thirdly, The manner; Fourthly, The ends of private fasting. 1. Of the Author. The first that ordained fasting was God himself in paradise; and it was the first law that God made, in commanding Adam to abstain from eating the forbidden fruit. God would not pronounce nor write his law without fasting (Lev. xxiii), and in his law commands all his people to fast. So does our
Lewis Bayly—The Practice of Piety

A Believer's Privilege at Death
'For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.' Phil 1:1I. Hope is a Christian's anchor, which he casts within the veil. Rejoicing in hope.' Rom 12:12. A Christian's hope is not in this life, but he hash hope in his death.' Prov 14:42. The best of a saint's comfort begins when his life ends; but the wicked have all their heaven here. Woe unto you that are rich! for ye have received your consolation.' Luke 6:64. You may make your acquittance, and write Received in full payment.' Son, remember that
Thomas Watson—A Body of Divinity

The Morning of Good Friday.
The pale grey light had passed into that of early morning, when the Sanhedrists once more assembled in the Palace of Caiaphas. [5969] A comparison with the terms in which they who had formed the gathering of the previous night are described will convey the impression, that the number of those present was now increased, and that they who now came belonged to the wisest and most influential of the Council. It is not unreasonable to suppose, that some who would not take part in deliberations which were
Alfred Edersheim—The Life and Times of Jesus the Messiah

Growth in Grace
'But grow in grace.' 2 Pet 3:38. True grace is progressive, of a spreading and growing nature. It is with grace as with light; first, there is the crepusculum, or daybreak; then it shines brighter to the full meridian. A good Christian is like the crocodile. Quamdiu vivet crescit; he has never done growing. The saints are not only compared to stars for their light, but to trees for their growth. Isa 61:1, and Hos 14:4. A good Christian is not like Hezekiah's sun that went backwards, nor Joshua's
Thomas Watson—A Body of Divinity

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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