Condolence: The Three Friends of, to Job
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In the biblical narrative of Job, found in the Book of Job, the theme of condolence is prominently illustrated through the actions of Job's three friends: Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite. These friends play a significant role in the unfolding drama of Job's suffering and the exploration of divine justice and human righteousness.

Arrival and Initial Condolence

Upon hearing of Job's immense suffering and loss, his three friends set out from their respective homes to offer him comfort and sympathy. Their initial intention is to "sympathize with him and comfort him" (Job 2:11). This act of coming together to support a friend in distress is a testament to the value placed on community and empathy in times of hardship.

When they first see Job from a distance, they scarcely recognize him due to his severe afflictions. Overcome with grief, they weep aloud, tear their robes, and sprinkle dust on their heads as a sign of mourning (Job 2:12). These actions reflect the cultural expressions of sorrow and solidarity in the ancient Near Eastern context.

Seven Days of Silence

The friends' initial response to Job's plight is marked by a profound silence. They sit with him on the ground for seven days and seven nights, without speaking a word, "because they saw how great his suffering was" (Job 2:13). This period of silence is significant, as it demonstrates a deep respect for Job's suffering and an acknowledgment of the inadequacy of words in the face of profound grief.

Dialogue and Debate

After this period of silent condolence, the friends begin to speak, initiating a series of dialogues with Job that span much of the book. Each friend, in turn, attempts to explain Job's suffering through the lens of retributive justice, suggesting that his afflictions must be a result of some hidden sin. Eliphaz, drawing on his own experiences and visions, suggests that no one is righteous before God (Job 4:7-8). Bildad appeals to tradition and the wisdom of the ancients, asserting that God does not reject a blameless man (Job 8:20). Zophar, the most direct of the three, urges Job to repent, implying that his suffering is deserved (Job 11:14-15).

Misguided Condolence

While the friends' intentions may have been to console, their speeches often exacerbate Job's distress. Their insistence on a simplistic understanding of divine justice fails to account for the complexity of Job's situation and the mystery of God's ways. Job, in his responses, maintains his innocence and challenges their assumptions, expressing his frustration with their lack of true empathy and understanding (Job 16:2-5).

Divine Rebuke

Ultimately, God Himself intervenes, addressing the friends' misguided counsel. The Lord rebukes Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar for not speaking what is right about Him, as Job has (Job 42:7). This divine correction underscores the limitations of human wisdom in comprehending divine purposes and the importance of humility and compassion in offering true condolence.

In the end, Job's friends are instructed to offer sacrifices and seek Job's intercession on their behalf, which Job graciously provides (Job 42:8-9). This act of reconciliation and restoration highlights the power of forgiveness and the restoration of relationships through humility and prayer.
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Job 2:11
Now when Job's three friends heard of all this evil that was come on him, they came every one from his own place; Eliphaz the Temanite, and Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite: for they had made an appointment together to come to mourn with him and to comfort him.
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