4He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity 5(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?), 6and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil. 7And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.

      8Deacons likewise must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain, 9but holding to the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10These men must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are beyond reproach. 11Women must likewise be dignified, not malicious gossips, but temperate, faithful in all things. 12Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households. 13For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.

      14I am writing these things to you, hoping to come to you before long; 15but in case I am delayed, I write so that you will know how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and support of the truth.

16By common confession, great is the mystery of godliness:
         He who was revealed in the flesh,
         Was vindicated in the Spirit,
         Seen by angels,
         Proclaimed among the nations,
         Believed on in the world,
         Taken up in glory.

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American Standard Version
one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Douay-Rheims Bible
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity.

Darby Bible Translation
conducting his own house well, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

English Revised Version
one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Webster's Bible Translation
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

Weymouth New Testament
but ruling his own household wisely and well, with children kept under control with true dignity.

World English Bible
one who rules his own house well, having children in subjection with all reverence;

Young's Literal Translation
his own house leading well, having children in subjection with all gravity,Christ's Humiliation in his Incarnation
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It is not only without any warrant of Scripture that matrimony is considered a sacrament, but it has been turned into a mere mockery by the very same traditions which vaunt it as a sacrament. Let us look a little into this. I have said that in every sacrament there is contained a word of divine promise, which must be believed in by him who receives the sign; and that the sign alone cannot constitute a sacrament. Now we nowhere read that he who marries a wife will receive any grace from God; neither …
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Sundry Exhortations.
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Thomas Charles Edwards—The Expositor's Bible: The Epistle to the Hebrews

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