2 Samuel 18:18

During his lifetime, Absalom had set up for himself a pillar in the King's Valley, for he had said, "I have no son to preserve the memory of my name." So he gave the pillar his name, and to this day it is called Absalom's Monument.

Study Bible

During his lifetime
This phrase indicates that the actions described were taken by Absalom while he was still alive, suggesting a premeditated effort to establish a legacy. It reflects the human desire for remembrance and legacy, a theme seen throughout Scripture, such as in Genesis 11:4 with the Tower of Babel.

Absalom had set up for himself a pillar
Absalom's act of setting up a pillar is significant in the ancient Near Eastern context, where monuments were often erected to commemorate individuals or events. This self-commemoration contrasts with the biblical ideal of God establishing one's legacy, as seen in 2 Samuel 7:12-13 with God's promise to David.

in the King’s Valley
The King’s Valley is traditionally identified with the Kidron Valley, located near Jerusalem. This location is significant as it is close to the city of David, highlighting Absalom's desire to be remembered in association with royal authority and proximity to the seat of power.

for he had said, “I have no son to preserve the memory of my name.”
This statement reveals Absalom's concern for his legacy. Although 2 Samuel 14:27 mentions that Absalom had sons, it is possible they died young or were otherwise unable to carry on his name. This reflects the cultural importance of male offspring in ancient Israel for the continuation of one's lineage and name.

So he gave the pillar his name
Naming the pillar after himself underscores Absalom's self-centeredness and desire for personal glory. This act can be contrasted with the biblical principle of seeking God's glory rather than one's own, as seen in passages like Isaiah 42:8.

and to this day it is called Absalom’s Monument
The phrase "to this day" suggests that the monument was still known by this name at the time the text was written, indicating its lasting impact. This enduring name serves as a reminder of Absalom's rebellion and tragic end, paralleling the fate of those who seek their own glory rather than God's, as seen in Proverbs 16:18.

Persons / Places / Events

1. Absalom
The third son of King David, known for his handsome appearance and rebellious nature. He led a revolt against his father, King David.

2. King’s Valley
A location near Jerusalem, traditionally associated with the Kidron Valley. It was a place of significance for monuments and memorials.

3. Absalom’s Monument
A pillar erected by Absalom to commemorate himself, reflecting his desire for legacy and remembrance.

Teaching Points

The Danger of Pride
Absalom's actions serve as a cautionary tale about the dangers of pride and self-exaltation. Pride can lead to destructive decisions and ultimately to downfall.

Legacy and Remembrance
True legacy is not built on monuments or self-promotion but on righteous living and obedience to God. Consider how you are building your legacy.

The Illusion of Control
Absalom attempted to control his legacy through a physical monument, yet his life and actions were ultimately in God's hands. Trust in God's sovereignty over your life and future.

The Importance of Humility
Absalom's account reminds us of the value of humility. Seek to serve others and glorify God rather than seeking personal glory.

Bible Study Questions

1. What motivated Absalom to erect a monument to himself, and how does this reflect his character?

2. How does Absalom's desire for a legacy compare to the biblical understanding of a lasting legacy?

3. In what ways can pride manifest in our lives today, and how can we guard against it?

4. How does the account of Absalom challenge us to consider the impact of our actions on our legacy?

5. Reflect on a time when you sought recognition or control over a situation. How can you apply the lessons from Absalom's account to that experience?

Connections to Other Scriptures

Genesis 11:4
The account of the Tower of Babel, where people sought to make a name for themselves, parallels Absalom's desire for self-glorification.

Proverbs 10:7
This verse contrasts the memory of the righteous with the name of the wicked, offering insight into Absalom's legacy.

Matthew 23:12
Jesus teaches about humility, which contrasts with Absalom's prideful actions.