The Pastor's Wife
1 Timothy 3:11
Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.


A good example is the pastor's first ministry, and Paul associates the wife in this ministry, when he wishes the wives to be "grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things." This has been felt to be so important that in certain churches, those of Hungary, the minister has been made positively responsible for the conduct of his wife. He is everywhere so morally, and the responsibility is a grave one, the ministry may suffer considerably if it is not regarded. How much may the humours and vices of the wife (slander, avarice, negligence, display, etc.), compromise the respectability of the pastor? And conversely: Julian the apostate, observing that one cause of the success of the gospel was the purity in the manners of its followers, and especially its ministers, and wishing to enable paganism to compete with Christianity, ordered the pagan priests to maintain their wives, children, and domestics in the same sanctity of manners.

(Vinet.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.

WEB: Their wives in the same way must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things.




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