What I Think of Myself and What God Thinks of Me
Proverbs 16:2
All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weighs the spirits.


"All the ways of a man" — then is there no such thing as being conscious of having gone wrong? of course there is, and equally of course a broad statement such as this of my text is not to be pressed into literal accuracy, but is a simple general assertion of what we all know to be true, that we have a strange power of blinding ourselves as to what is wrong in ourselves and in our actions. But what is it that God weighs? "The spirits." We too often content ourselves with looking at our ways; God looks at ourselves. He takes the inner man into account, estimates actions by motives, and so very often differs from our judgment of ourselves, and of one another.

I. OUR STRANGE POWER OF BLINDING OURSELVES. "All the ways of a man are right in his own eyes,"

1. For, to begin with, we all know that there is nothing that we so habitually neglect as the bringing of conscience to bear right through all our lives. Sometimes it is because there is a temptation that appeals very strongly to some strong inclination which has been strengthened by indulgence. And when the craving arises, that is no time to begin asking, "Is it right or is it wrong to yield?" That question stands small chance of being wisely considered at a moment when, under the goading of roused desire, a man is like a mad bull when it charges. It drops its head and shuts its eyes, and goes right forward, and no matter whether it smashes its horns against an iron gate, and damages them and itself, or not, on it. will go But in regard to the smaller commonplace matters of daily life, too, we all know that there are whole regions of our lives which seem to us to be so small that it is hardly worth while summoning the august thought of "right or wrong?" to decide them. It is the trifles of life that shape life, and it is to them that we so frequently fail in applying, honestly and rigidly, the test, "Is this right or wrong?" Get the habit of bringing conscience to bear on little things, or you will never be able to bring it to bear when great temptations come and the crises emerge in your lives. Thus, by reason of that deficiency in the habitual application of conscience to our lives, we slide through, and take for granted that all our ways are right in our eyes.

2. Then there is another thing: we not only neglect the rigid application of conscience to all our lives, but we have a double standard, send the notion of right and wrong which we apply to our neighbours is very different from that which we apply to ourselves. "All the ways of a man are right in his own eyes," but the very same "ways" that you allow to pass muster and condone in yourselves, you visit with sharp and unfailing censure in others.

3. Then there is another thing to be remembered, and that is — the enormous and the tragical influence of habit in dulling the mirror of our souls, on which our deeds are reflected in their true image. What we are accustomed to do we scarcely ever recognise to be wrong, and it is these things which pass because they are habitual that do more to wreck lives than occasional outbursts of far worse evils, according to the world's estimate of them. Habit dulls the eye.

4. Yes; and more than that, the conscience needs educating just as much as any other faculty. A man says, "My conscience acquits me"; then the question is, "And what sort of a conscience have you got, if it acquits you?" "I thought within myself that I verily ought to do many things contrary to the name of Jesus of Nazareth." "They think that they do God service." Many things that seem to us virtues are vices. And as for the individual so for the community. The perception of what is right and what is wrong needs long educating. When I was a boy the whole Christian Church of America, with one voice, declared that "slavery was a patriarchal institution appointed by God."

II. THE DIVINE ESTIMATE. I have already pointed out the two emphatic thoughts that lie in that clause, "God weigheth," and "weigheth the spirits." God weighs the spirits." He reads what we do by His knowledge of what we are. We reveal to one another what we are by what we do, and, as is a commonplace, none of us can penetrate, except very superficially and often inaccurately, to the motives that actuate.

III. THE PRACTICAL ISSUES OF THESE THOUGHTS. "Commit thy works unto the Lord" — that is to say, do not be too sure that you are right because you do not think you are wrong. We should be very distrustful of our own judgment of ourselves, especially when that judgment permits us to do certain things. "Happy is he that condemneth not himself in the things which he alloweth." You may have made the glove too easy by stretching. Then, again, let us seek the Divine strengthening and illumination. Seek it by prayer. There is nothing so powerful in stripping off from our besetting sins their disguises and masks as to go to God with the honest petition: "Search me... and try me," etc. We ought to keep ourselves in very close union with Jesus Christ, because if we cling to Him in simple faith, he will come into our hearts, and we shall be saved from walking in darkness, and have the light of life shining down upon our deeds. Christ is the conscience of the Christian man's conscience. We must punctiliously obey every dictate that speaks in our own consciences, especially when it urges us to unwelcome duties, or restrains us from too welcome sins. "To him that hath shall be given."

(A. Maclaren, D.D.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits.

WEB: All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but Yahweh weighs the motives.




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