1. How does Rehoboam's leadership contrast with Solomon's?

2. What were the consequences of Rehoboam ignoring the elder's advice?

3. How do you respond when given advice that contradicts your initial inclination?

4. In what ways might Rehoboam's decision be relevant to leaders today?

5. Why did Jeroboam establish false worship? How does this show his insecurity?

6. How can you ensure your faith stays strong even when a leader you respect falls into sin?

7. How does God's message through the prophet demonstrate His sovereignty?

8. How does Jeroboam's fear impact his decisions? What fears might lead you to disobedience?

9. How might the division of Israel's kingdom affect their relationship with God?

10. How can we apply the lessons of 1 Kings 12 to today's context of division within nations or communities?

11. How can you discern when to stand firm or when to yield in a leadership role?

12. How might societal or peer pressure influence a leader's decisions, as seen in Rehoboam's case?

13. How should we respond when we see leaders or authority figures making decisions against God's will?

14. What lessons about leadership and humility can we learn from this chapter?

15. Why is it important to seek God’s guidance in decision-making processes, both in our personal lives and in leadership roles?

16. How can you guard against creating your own "golden calves" in life, things that draw your focus and worship away from God?

17. Why do you think Jeroboam went to such extremes to secure his power?

18. How does the division of the kingdom continue to influence the narrative of Israel in later books of the Bible?

19. What personal lessons can you take away from the mistakes of Rehoboam and Jeroboam?

20. How can we as Christians strive to maintain unity in the face of disagreements or differing perspectives within the church or community?