The Danger of the Tongue

You have received practical teachings in chapters 1 and 2, a practice that is surrounded by heavenly light. That practice can only, as you have seen in chapter 1, become reality when there is new life. That means that only new creatures (Jam 1:18) are able to bring faith into practice. In chapter 2 your attention was focused on an object for the heart: the glorious Lord (Jam 2:1), the center of the new creation. By Him you are attracted to follow a straight course through the world. But another thing is needed and that is wisdom which like the gift of the new life comes down from above (Jam 3:17; cf. Jam 1:17-18).

Jam 3:1. Before James starts to talk about this wisdom from above he first urgently demonstrates the danger of the tongue to you. The tongue is the most accurate measure of what is present in your heart. It is for a reason that the Lord says that the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart and that we will be justified or condemned by our words (Mt 12:34b; 37).

James calls on his brethren because of the fact that it appears that many people tend to present themselves as a teacher. By that he means that they tend to place themselves above others to lecture those others about how things should be done. So he is not talking about the teachers in the church who are given by the glorified Lord as gifts to His church (Eph 4:11). It is not possible that James is addressing those teachers.

It is about those who want to be something that God has not given to them. It is the same like wanting to be rich, which is different than if God makes a person rich. James warns that you should bear in mind that if you want to be a teacher, you will receive a stricter judgment. If you want to be a teacher without first being taught yourself, then it will appear from your words that you do not know what you are talking about. However, you will be judged by it.

In itself, it is not wrong to have the desire to teach others and it is certainly a good thing that there is room to teach in the meeting of the church. That seems also to be the case here, for this admonition would be superfluous if the freedom to speak were not open to all brethren. Only it seems that it became crowded at the pulpit. It is like the Corinthians with whom Paul also had to put a brake on their impulse to express themselves (1Cor 14:27-33).

If you want to teach others in the right sense of the word, you absolutely need to be taught first at the feet of the Lord Jesus (Lk 10:39). He Himself gives the right example. To Him has been given a tongue of disciples or of those who have learned, in other words: of someone who has been taught (Isa 50:4). He had always obeyed His Father. He never passed on anything, unless He had heard it from His Father. Therefore He was able to talk with the weary woman at the well of Jacob and tell her everything she had done (Jn 4:6; 29). He was able to speak because He had opened ears (Psa 40:6).

Jam 3:2. Another instruction for not desiring to be too eager to be a teacher, is that we stumble in many ways in what we say. If you honestly look at yourself, then you need to admit that it regularly happens that you do not put in the right words what you mean, do you? When you look back you sometimes have to regret that not everything you have said was right. It shows your weakness and you have to be well aware of that.

If you are perfect in your speech, thus if you perfectly control your tongue, then you will also control your deeds and the course you take. The Lord Jesus is the only One Who has never stumbled in His words, which also makes only Him perfect in everything His body did. To us it is important to guard our tongue, for that is the greatest stumbling block for us.

Jam 3:3. James wants to clarify the functioning of the tongue and the effect of both the right and wrong use of it through examples from nature. You keep your body in control by keeping your tongue in control. It is the same as how you bridle a horse. If you want to bridle a horse you must put bit and bridle in its mouth (cf. Psa 32:9). In this way you can manage to direct the whole horse to your pleasure and turn it wherever you want. That large body of the horse is totally in your power through the small bit in its mouth.

Horses were primarily used in combat. We may apply this example in that sense to a battle of words. Precisely then it is important for us to control our tongue. Especially in battles of words or disputes we often say things that we later regret.

Jam 3:4. The second example is that of a large ship that is driven by the hard wind in its sails. Still it is not a plaything of the wind and the waves. That large ship has, in proportion to the large ship, a very small rudder. That very small rudder is directed by a pilot. When the pilot directs the rudder with his firm hand, then that large ship obeys according to the position of the rudder. The position of the rudder determines where the ship is heading to and not the wind.

We can apply this example of the ships at sea to our journey through the sea of life which we are sailing and where we are exposed to all kinds of winds. Events in our life stir us up. If we know that the Lord Jesus is standing at the rudder of our life ship, we know that those events do not happen accidentally. That will prevent us from sinning with our mouth, as we see that with Job (Job 2:10). We stay on the right course if we keep focusing on the Lord and our home harbor with Him.

Jam 3:5. After the positive examples of the use, or better said, the control of the tongue, James turns to the destruction that the tongue often causes. He already showed how the tongue as a small part of the body can control mighty powers. Now he shows how the tongue as a small part of the body is an indomitable force that wreaks great havoc.

The tongue is a member by which the pride of man and his independence of God are expressed in the most arrogant manner (Psa 12:4). The tongue is the instrument by which man boasts in great deeds. You can hear that daily in the language that politicians use. Without the slightest modesty they summarize everything they have achieved, according to their own convictions. In these same speeches they also make their promises while they keep on overestimating themselves gigantically. It would be a shame for believers to use such prideful language.

This blustering and exaggerated language has often set the flame on fire. It is for a reason that James says that the tongue is a fire. The point is that although it is a small fire it is like a match stick that is able to set on fire a large forest or a great stack of wood. Look at the fall of man and all its consequences. The sin of the tongue has been the first sin that entered creation. The fire that has been kindled in paradise has been destructing the lives of all men until this day. Everyone who does not convert will be delivered to this fire forever and ever.

Jam 3:6. It is the fire burning in hell that comes out through the tongue. “The [very] world of iniquity” is summarized in the tongue.

Of all parts of the body the tongue takes the place of ‘defiler’. You can do as many good deeds as you possibly can and in that way build up much goodwill, but once you say something that causes others to stumble, you have been marked forever. People will always remember what you have said and they will always echo that after you. An irreversible stain has destroyed your garment of good deeds.

By the way, you not only must deal with the results of a wrong use of the tongue in your personal life. The whole nature, the way natural life develops and has its course, is set on fire by the tongue. Statements that are made in all kinds of areas without involving God, provoke a reaction that only make things worse and lead to greater destruction. The fire consumes everything that is in its environment. This fire is ultimately from hell, with which man without God is connected. No one will admit that. Men without God deny the existence of hell, but James shows the reality.

Now read James 3:1-6 again.

Reflection: Which positive and which negative elements are present in the tongue?

Two Springs

Jam 3:7. “The human race” has the ability to tame all animals with their natural tendency toward freedom, in other words to control them. Man is able to catch and control the wildest, fastest and most uncatchable beasts, the highest flying birds and the most terrifying deep dark sea monsters.

Jam 3:8. Man is superior to all creatures, but the tongue is the master of man. You may be able to control your tongue. That is only possible by the power of the Holy Spirit. If you give Him the control in your life He can manifest the new life through your tongue.

However, there is no way that you can have any control over another person’s tongue. No man will ever be able to control the tongue of another person. The tongue is a “restless evil [and] full of deadly poison”. You can arm yourself against poisonous beasts or put them in a cage so that they may not harm you, but it is absolutely impossible to prevent the deadly poison of the tongue. The tongue of natural man is compared to a serpent and its words to deadly poison of asps (Psa 140:3; Rom 3:13-14).

Jam 3:9. You will fully agree with this sharp characterization of the tongue. But be careful. All of a sudden James puts the emphasis on you, while he includes himself also. He speaks about who profess to be believers and that includes you also. What do you do with your tongue? You bless the “Lord and Father” with it and you curse “men” with it who have been made “in the likeness of God” (Gen 1:26-27; 1Cor 11:7).

Jam 3:10. How could it be possible that “from the same mouth … blessing and curse” proceed? Or can you not recognize it? Haven’t you ever cursed someone because he treated you badly, while you also blessed God for the kindness and grace He has shown to you? Well, that is what James means and what should not be possibly. It is possible that in a meeting you may bless the Lord Jesus and the Father and right after that you slander your fellow believers or unbelievers with your tongue, while visiting someone.

Jam 3:11. James radically condemns such a double-hearted use of the tongue. He clarifies such an improper use by some examples from nature. In nature it is impossible that opposite things come from the same opening of a fountain. The tongue forms an exception to that general, logic rule. Unfortunately, the tongue can utter opposite words. The tongue, considered as a fountain, can indeed cause both the sweet and the bitter to spring up. The tongue can make spiritual statements at one moment and fleshly statements at another moment.

You are able to speak a “fresh”, literally “sweet”, word at the one moment, a word that is pleasant, and at another moment a bitter word, a word that expresses bitterness. You must consider, however, that both words are not from the same deeper lying fountain. The good, “sweet” word comes forth from the new life, the “bitter” one comes forth from the old nature.

Therefore it is important to pay attention to which nature has authority over your tongue. The new life allows you to speak with a new tongue, that is, since your conversion you can speak in a different way than when you did not know the Lord Jesus. If there is still little sign of this, the cause may be that your heart is often little filled with the Lord Jesus.

Jam 3:12. Each expression indicates out of which fountain from which that expression originates. If you slander a fellow man it originates from the old man. A praise to God originates from the new man. By the fruit you know the tree (Mt 12:33). In nature it is natural that each tree bears the fruit that belongs to that tree and that it bears no fruit that belongs to another tree. It is foolish to assume that you would be able to pick olives from a fig tree or figs from a vine. Likewise it is impossible that you can drink fresh or sweet water out of a salty spring. Unfortunately, what is impossible in nature can be possible with the believer.

Jam 3:13. However, there is still something that can help us to use the tongue properly. We can use our tongue properly if we are wise and if we are aware of the time we live in. We live in the end time. In such a time we can simply not afford to use our tongue improperly, for instance to undermine one another. In the end time we are appealed to be “wise and understanding”. That is why the question sounds who is ‘wise and understanding’.

The prophet Hosea also speaks about that (Hos 14:9). Hosea describes the ways of God with Israel. God’s ways result in a world that is full of peace under the rule of the Lord Jesus. ‘Wise and understanding’ is he who learns from the ways of God and applies that to his life. You can learn from the past of God’s people how you should live. Also in Psalm 107 the question sounds as a response to the ways of God (Psa 107:43).

It seems that James has pondered on those verses. That he asks the question means that not everyone is wise and understanding, but that he would want to appeal to the few, like you. In Israel there was mention of only one tribe of which could be said that it was wise in understanding the times (1Chr 12:32).

If you understand that you live in the end time, then you also know that it does not come down to words, but to deeds. It is about “a good behavior … in the gentleness of wisdom”. Such a conduct has got nothing to do with powerlessness, but on the contrary with powerfulness. Only it is not natural power, but spiritual power. You see that in perfection in the life of the Lord Jesus on earth. You can learn it from Him (Mt 11:29). If you learn from Him and practice that in your life you will be an encouraging example to others (Dan 11:33).

Jam 3:14. However, James says, nothing of that will happen “if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart”. You are envious if you begrudge another person to have something because you don’t have it and you yourself want it also. That goes for both material and immaterial matters. Such jealousy expresses itself in selfish ambition or strife. Strife arises because you begrudge another person to have something. Big words come out of your mouth. You think you at least have the right to have what the other person has!

In that way you end up lying “against the truth”. You contradict the truth of God’s Word in which we see clearly that we are all different and that we also deal differently with things in life and also in the church.

Jam 3:15. Such an attitude is not a sign of a wisdom that you have received from above, but on the contrary a wisdom that is from below. It is not a Divine, heavenly wisdom, but an “earthly” wisdom. It is not a wisdom that comes from the Spirit of God, but from your natural feelings, just say your ‘gut feelings’. It is a “natural” wisdom, for it is about the satisfaction of your fleshly needs. This wisdom is guided by the chief of demons, the devil, the father of lies (Jn 8:44) and is therefore also “demonic” by nature.

Jam 3:16. You see that in the consequences of “jealousy and selfish ambition”. Envy and self-seeking cause nothing but “disorder” and a practice that shows all kinds of evil.

Jam 3:17. It is possible to hand in and condemn that wisdom and replace that with being guided by the wisdom that is from above. That means that you look to Christ Who is the wisdom of God (1Cor 1:24; 30). Thus He is also presented to the church at Colossae, and therefore there was no confusion there, but good discipline and stability in faith (Col 2:3; 5).

1. The first feature of the wisdom from above is that it is “pure”. James emphasizes that purity comes “first”. The next features flow from this. Purity is the most important because it is about God Himself Who is pure. He is in no way connected to sins (Jam 1:13). When there is sin in your life, you cannot possibly be guided by the wisdom that is from above and there can neither be mention of the following features of wisdom.
2. If you confess the sin you become pure again (1Jn 1:9) and then you can be “peaceable” and go on peacefully. This is how the Lord Jesus speaks about it at the sermon on the Mount, where on purity also follows peace (Mt 5:8-9).
3. You will also be capable of being “gentle”, meaning that you will not seek to defend your rights and demand things for yourself.
4. You are also “reasonable”, which means to be subjective, available and correctable.
5. If you allow yourself to be taught by the wisdom from above you will be “full of mercy and good fruits”, that will be visible in your life, as it was the case with the Lord Jesus.
6. You are “unwavering” and therefore against forming sects and will not be dragged to join a certain party or sect.
7. Finally you are “without hypocrisy”, which means that you do not pretend to be different than you are.

Jam 3:18. You can show all of that in the world and practice that toward others. These seven features of the wisdom that is from above, are the fruit of righteousness. They come from righteousness. If they are practiced they are sown, as it were. These fruits can only be “sown in peace”. Peace is the motive to sow this fruit.

And what does this fruit deliver? Peace (Psa 85:10). If you make peace, if are a peace maker (Mt 5:9), you reap peace. You reap what you sow (Gal 6:7b). You are always sowing. All the words you speak and all the deeds you do are seeds sown by you.

If your words and deeds are inspired by the wisdom from above, you will reap a wonderful fruit, peace. Then you will now already be able to enjoy what will be present in the coming kingdom of peace all over the world.

Now read James 3:7-18 again.

Reflection: In what way can the wisdom from above be effective in your life?